{"id":7083,"date":"2025-12-15T10:51:13","date_gmt":"2025-12-15T09:51:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/oshoshqip.com\/?p=7083"},"modified":"2025-12-15T11:22:49","modified_gmt":"2025-12-15T10:22:49","slug":"puna-e-gabuar-e-qendrave-te-brendshme-lodhja-mendore-dhe-kaosi-i-brendshem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/oshoshqip.com\/en\/2025\/12\/15\/puna-e-gabuar-e-qendrave-te-brendshme-lodhja-mendore-dhe-kaosi-i-brendshem\/","title":{"rendered":"Puna e Gabuar e Qendrave t\u00eb Brendshme: lodhja mendore dhe kaosi i brendsh\u00ebm"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Artikulli shpjegon si tre qendrat kryesore t\u00eb njeriut \u2013 mendimi, ndjenja dhe l\u00ebvizja \u2013 shpesh punojn\u00eb keq dhe n\u00eb vend t\u00eb gabuar. Duke kuptuar k\u00ebt\u00eb kaos t\u00eb brendsh\u00ebm, njeriu mund t\u00eb kursej\u00eb energji dhe t\u00eb p\u00ebrjetoj\u00eb nj\u00eb jet\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb qet\u00eb e m\u00eb t\u00eb pranishme.<\/h1>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
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A nuk duket e \u00e7uditshme q\u00eb njeriu kthehet n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi i rraskapitur pas nj\u00eb dite t\u00eb kaluar thjesht ulur dhe duke menduar? Si ka mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb puna mendore ta l\u00ebr\u00eb njeriun m\u00eb t\u00eb thar\u00eb se puna fizike?<\/p>

Kjo pyetje zbulon di\u00e7ka q\u00eb shumica nuk e dyshojn\u00eb kurr\u00eb p\u00ebr funksionimin e vet. Lodhja q\u00eb p\u00ebrjetohet \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, por nuk lidhet fare me sasin\u00eb e pun\u00ebs reale q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb kryer. Njeriu \u00ebsht\u00eb i lodhur sepse makineria e tij e brendshme ka funksionuar gjith\u00eb dit\u00ebn n\u00eb kaos, me \u00e7do pjes\u00eb q\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqet t\u00eb kryej\u00eb detyra p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilat nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb krijuar.<\/p>

Kuptimi i k\u00ebtij kaosi do t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si p\u00ebrjetohet jeta. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb shkrim, shpalosen misteret e qendrave t\u00eb pun\u00ebs s\u00eb njeriut, t\u00eb cilat n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb padukshme jan\u00eb t\u00eb mosp\u00ebrputhura.<\/p>

Tre katet e nd\u00ebrtes\u00ebs s\u00eb brendshme<\/h2>

Le t\u00eb imagjinohet vetja si nj\u00eb nd\u00ebrtes\u00eb me tre kate t\u00eb dallueshme, secili i pajisur me aparatura t\u00eb specializuara dhe pun\u00ebtor\u00eb t\u00eb trajnuar p\u00ebr detyra t\u00eb caktuara.<\/p>

Kati i sip\u00ebrm:<\/span><\/strong> p\u00ebrmban aparatin e t\u00eb menduarit, t\u00eb krijuar p\u00ebr analiz\u00eb, planifikim dhe zgjidhje problemesh p\u00ebrmes logjik\u00ebs.
Kati i mes\u00ebm:<\/span><\/strong> strehon kapacitetin e ndjenjave, t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtuar p\u00ebr t\u2019iu p\u00ebrgjigjur bukuris\u00eb, rrezikut, g\u00ebzimit dhe trishtimit me reagime t\u00eb p\u00ebrshtatshme emocionale.
Kati i posht\u00ebm:<\/strong><\/span> administron ekzistenc\u00ebn fizike, duke menaxhuar gjith\u00e7ka, nga ecja dhe frym\u00ebmarrja e deri te proceset e panum\u00ebrta automatike q\u00eb e mbajn\u00eb trupin gjall\u00eb.<\/p>

\u00c7do kat funksionon me shpejt\u00ebsin\u00eb e vet natyrale dhe ka inteligjenc\u00ebn e vet. Kur thuhet \u201cinteligjenc\u00eb\u201d, n\u00ebnkuptohet se secila qend\u00ebr ka nj\u00eb aft\u00ebsi t\u00eb mir\u00ebfillt\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb trajtuar lloje t\u00eb caktuara situatash n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb shk\u00eblqyer, pa mundim dhe pa nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr nd\u00ebrhyrje t\u00eb vet\u00ebdijshme.<\/p>

Qendra e t\u00eb menduarit te njeriu punon ngadal\u00eb dhe me kujdes, si nj\u00eb gjykat\u00ebs q\u00eb peshon me holl\u00ebsi provat para se t\u00eb jap\u00eb vendimin.
Qendra e\u00a0ndjenjave vepron me shpejt\u00ebsin\u00eb e rrufes\u00eb, duke iu p\u00ebrgjigjur situatave m\u00eb shpejt sesa arrin t\u00eb ndjek\u00eb mendimi.
Qendra e l\u00ebvizjes (fizik+instiktiv) funksionon diku n\u00eb mes t\u00eb k\u00ebtyre dyve, duke menaxhuar koordinimin fizik dhe zakonet e m\u00ebsuara me nj\u00eb efikasitet t\u00eb jasht\u00ebzakonsh\u00ebm.<\/p>

Tragjedia \u00ebsht\u00eb se k\u00ebto tre kate rrall\u00eb funksionojn\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb pavarur, ashtu si\u00e7 duhet. N\u00eb vend t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj, ato nd\u00ebrhyjn\u00eb vazhdimisht te nj\u00ebra-tjetra, duke krijuar nj\u00eb kaos t\u00eb brendsh\u00ebm q\u00eb shp\u00ebrdoron sasi t\u00eb m\u00ebdha energjie dhe prodhon p\u00ebshtjellim, ankth dhe ndjenj\u00ebn e nj\u00eb mbingarkese t\u00eb vazhdueshme nga jeta.<\/p>

Kur mendja pengon ndjenjat<\/h2>

Le t\u00eb v\u00ebrehet se \u00e7far\u00eb ndodh kur dikush thot\u00eb di\u00e7ka q\u00eb e l\u00ebndon njeriun. Nj\u00eb koleg b\u00ebn nj\u00eb v\u00ebrejtje ther\u00ebse. Nj\u00eb mik harron nj\u00eb rast t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm. Partneri flet pa menduar.<\/p>

Reagimi i sh\u00ebndetsh\u00ebm natyror do t\u00eb ishte q\u00eb qendra emocionale thjesht ta ndiej\u00eb dhimbjen, ta p\u00ebrpunoj\u00eb dhe ta l\u00ebshoj\u00eb. Kjo zgjat ndoshta sekonda ose minuta, kur lejohet t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb natyrale.<\/p>

N\u00eb vend t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj, \u00e7far\u00eb ndodh realisht? N\u00eb \u00e7astin kur shfaqet dhimbja, qendra e t\u00eb menduarit v\u00ebrsulet tep\u00ebr mbrojt\u00ebse, duke u p\u00ebrpjekur t\u00eb menaxhoj\u00eb dhe kontrolloj\u00eb ndjenj\u00ebn:<\/p>

\u201cUn\u00eb nuk duhet t\u00eb m\u00ebrzitem p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb. Ndoshta ata nuk e kan\u00eb pasur me at\u00eb kuptim. Po jem shum\u00eb i\/e ndjesh\u00ebm. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb iracionale. Le ta analizoj pse po reagoj k\u00ebshtu.\u201d<\/p>

Or\u00eb ose edhe dit\u00eb mund t\u00eb kalojn\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb p\u00ebrtypje mendore, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb ndjenja fillestare kurr\u00eb nuk p\u00ebrjetohet plot\u00ebsisht dhe as lirohet.<\/p>

Nj\u00eb studente vajti te Gurdjieff, dhe nuk kishte qar\u00eb p\u00ebr 15 vjet, megjith\u00ebse kishte p\u00ebrjetuar humbje q\u00eb do t\u2019i sillnin lot edhe gurit. Qendra e saj e t\u00eb menduarit kishte ngritur nj\u00eb sistem aq t\u00eb nd\u00ebrlikuar arsyetimesh pse t\u00eb qarit \u00ebsht\u00eb i pavlefsh\u00ebm, pse emocionet duhen kontrolluar p\u00ebrmes arsyes, saq\u00eb qendra emocionale ishte fikur thuajse krejt\u00ebsisht.<\/p>

Ajo vuante nga dhimbje koke t\u00eb vazhdueshme, probleme t\u00eb tretjes dhe pamund\u00ebsi p\u00ebr t\u00eb fjetur. Trupi i saj po qante lot\u00ebt q\u00eb syt\u00eb nuk mund t\u2019i l\u00ebshonin, sepse qendra e t\u00eb menduarit po e pengonte pun\u00ebn natyrore t\u00eb ndjenj\u00ebs.<\/p>

Ky z\u00ebvend\u00ebsim ndodh vazhdimisht n\u00eb kultur\u00ebn e sotme. Njeriu \u00ebsht\u00eb st\u00ebrvitur t\u00eb mendoj\u00eb rreth ndjenjave n\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u2019i p\u00ebrjetoj\u00eb ato, t\u00eb analizoj\u00eb reagimet emocionale n\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u2019u lejoj\u00eb shprehjen e tyre natyrale. Si pasoj\u00eb, ndjenjat nuk e p\u00ebrfundojn\u00eb kurr\u00eb ciklin e vet; ato mbeten t\u00eb bllokuara brenda, krijojn\u00eb presion, shfaqen si simptoma fizike ose shp\u00ebrthejn\u00eb m\u00eb von\u00eb n\u00eb forma emocionale krejt\u00ebsisht t\u00eb pakrahasueshme me at\u00eb q\u00eb i ka shkaktuar.<\/p>

Kur ndjenjat pengojn\u00eb mendimin e kthjell\u00ebt<\/h2>

Tani le t\u00eb v\u00ebrehet e kund\u00ebrta. Njeriu duhet t\u00eb marr\u00eb nj\u00eb vendim praktik. A t\u00eb pranoj\u00eb nj\u00eb pun\u00eb t\u00eb re apo t\u00eb q\u00ebndroj\u00eb n\u00eb detyr\u00ebn aktuale? Cilin apartament t\u00eb marr\u00eb me qira? Cilit projekt t\u2019i jepet p\u00ebrpar\u00ebsi sot? K\u00ebto pyetje k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb mendim t\u00eb kthjell\u00ebt, peshim t\u00eb kujdessh\u00ebm t\u00eb faktor\u00ebve dhe analiz\u00eb logjike t\u00eb t\u00eb mirave dhe t\u00eb k\u00ebqijave. N\u00eb vend t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj, truri emocional e p\u00ebrmbyt procesin me ndjenja.<\/p>

Frika nga marrja e vendimit t\u00eb gabuar e paralizon njeriun. Entuziazmi p\u00ebr mund\u00ebsit\u00eb e reja e hedh mendjen n\u00ebp\u00ebr fantazi. Ankthi p\u00ebr at\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u00eb mendojn\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt e mjegullon \u00e7do shqyrtim. Turpi nga d\u00ebshtimet e kaluara b\u00ebn q\u00eb ai t\u00eb dyshoj\u00eb n\u00eb gjykimin e vet. Or\u00eb kalojn\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb stuhi emocionale, nd\u00ebrsa mendimi i v\u00ebrtet\u00eb nuk ndodh fare.<\/p>

Shpesh njer\u00ebz shum\u00eb inteligjent\u00eb b\u00ebhen krejt\u00ebsisht t\u00eb marr\u00eb kur marrin vendime p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn e tyre personale. Truri i tyre i t\u00eb menduarit funksionon shum\u00eb mir\u00eb kur analizojn\u00eb probleme abstrakte ose \u00e7\u00ebshtje profesionale. Por, n\u00eb \u00e7astin q\u00eb pyetja b\u00ebhet personale, emocionet e p\u00ebrmbytin procesin intelektual.<\/p>

Ata nuk mund t\u00eb mendojn\u00eb qart\u00eb p\u00ebr marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet, sh\u00ebndetin ose drejtimin e jet\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre, sepse ndjenja ka hyr\u00eb n\u00eb territorin ku nuk i takon t\u00eb veproj\u00eb. Kjo shpjegon pse njer\u00ebzit shpesh marrin vendime t\u00eb k\u00ebqija kur jan\u00eb emocionalisht t\u00eb ndezur.<\/p>

Vet\u00eb emocioni mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb krejt i p\u00ebrshtatsh\u00ebm: frika p\u00ebrball\u00eb rrezikut ka funksionin e vet; g\u00ebzimi nga nj\u00eb lajm i mir\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb i natyrsh\u00ebm. Problemi lind kur k\u00ebto energji t\u00eb shpejta emocionale p\u00ebrpiqen t\u00eb kryejn\u00eb pun\u00ebn e ngadalt\u00eb dhe t\u00eb kujdesshme t\u00eb mendimit. \u00cbsht\u00eb si t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqesh t\u00eb b\u00ebsh kirurgji delikate duke hipur mbi nj\u00eb kal\u00eb q\u00eb vrapon me galop.<\/p>

Ping-pongu Mendje -emocion<\/h2>

N\u00eb shum\u00eb situata t\u00eb p\u00ebrditshme, qendra mendore dhe ajo emocionale hyjn\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb loj\u00eb t\u00eb pandalshme ping\u2011pongu, duke krijuar gjendje t\u00eb thell\u00eb ankthi te njeriu. Mendja kap nj\u00eb mendim shqet\u00ebsues \u2013 p\u00ebr shembull: \u201cndoshta do t\u00eb humbas pun\u00ebn\u201d, \u201c\u00e7far\u00eb n\u00ebse m\u00eb l\u00eb partneri?\u201d, \u201cpo sikur t\u00eb s\u00ebmurem r\u00ebnd\u00eb?\u201d \u2013 dhe ky mendim ndez menj\u00ebher\u00eb qendr\u00ebn emocionale, e cila prodhon frik\u00eb, siklet, tension t\u00eb brendsh\u00ebm.<\/p>

Kjo frik\u00eb nuk mbetet neutrale: ajo i jep energji mendimit fillestar, e b\u00ebn at\u00eb t\u00eb ting\u00eblloj\u00eb m\u00eb i v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, m\u00eb urgjent, m\u00eb k\u00ebrc\u00ebnues. Mendimi i ushqyer me frik\u00eb kthehet p\u00ebrs\u00ebri n\u00eb qendr\u00ebn mendore n\u00eb form\u00eb skenar\u00ebsh edhe m\u00eb t\u00eb zinj, analizash pa fund, hamend\u00ebsimesh dhe \u201cpo sikur\u2011ash\u201d pafund, t\u00eb cilat e shtojn\u00eb edhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb frik\u00ebn. Emocioni i rritur tani shfaqet edhe n\u00eb trup: zemra rreh m\u00eb shpejt, frym\u00ebmarrja b\u00ebhet e cek\u00ebt, shfaqet nj\u00eb shtr\u00ebngim n\u00eb kraharor, tension n\u00eb stomak, djersitje e ftoht\u00eb; trupi e interpreton k\u00ebt\u00eb si rrezik real, duke e amplifikuar edhe m\u00eb tej ndjenj\u00ebn e frik\u00ebs. Kjo frik\u00eb trupore i kthehet mendjes si \u201cprov\u00eb\u201d se di\u00e7ka v\u00ebrtet nuk shkon: \u201cpo ndihem k\u00ebshtu, at\u00ebher\u00eb patjet\u00ebr ka di\u00e7ka t\u00eb keqe\u201d, dhe k\u00ebshtu topi kalon s\u00ebrish n\u00eb fush\u00ebn mendore, me mendime edhe m\u00eb katastrofike.<\/p>

N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb qark t\u00eb mbyllur, as qendra mendore nuk po mendon v\u00ebrtet me kthjellt\u00ebsi, as qendra emocionale nuk po p\u00ebrjeton dhe liron nj\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb t\u00eb vetme deri n\u00eb fund; ato vet\u00ebm e ushqejn\u00eb nj\u00ebra\u2011tjetr\u00ebn n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb mekanike. Sa m\u00eb gjat\u00eb t\u00eb vazhdoj\u00eb ky ping\u2011pong mendim\u2011emocion, aq m\u00eb shum\u00eb fiksim krijohet: mendja m\u00ebsohet t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb rrezik kudo, ndjenja m\u00ebsohet t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjet me frik\u00eb ndaj \u00e7do mendimi, dhe gradualisht lind nj\u00eb gjendje kronike ankthi ku njeriu jeton brenda k\u00ebtij qarku pa e kuptuar se energjia e tij po digjet nga puna e gabuar dhe e p\u00ebrzier e dy qendrave.<\/p>

Kur trupi ik\u00ebn nga ndjenjat<\/h2>

K\u00ebtu shfaqet ndoshta problemi m\u00eb i zakonsh\u00ebm i jet\u00ebs moderne. Njeriu ndihet i parehatsh\u00ebm, i shqet\u00ebsuar ose i trishtuar. K\u00ebto jan\u00eb sinjale nga qendra emocionale se di\u00e7ka k\u00ebrkon v\u00ebmendje. Reagimi i sh\u00ebndetsh\u00ebm do t\u00eb ishte t\u00eb kthehet v\u00ebmendja brenda, t\u00eb ndihen plot\u00ebsisht ato q\u00eb po ndihen dhe t\u2019i lejohet qendr\u00ebs emocionale t\u00eb p\u00ebrfundoj\u00eb procesin e saj natyror.<\/p>

N\u00eb vend t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj, truri i l\u00ebvizjes aktivizohet menj\u00ebher\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019i shp\u00ebtuar parehatis\u00eb. Hapen telefonat, duke l\u00ebvizur kot n\u00ebp\u00ebr imazhe q\u00eb regjistrohen n\u00eb vet\u00ebdije pa u par\u00eb realisht. Hapet frigoriferi, edhe pse nuk ka uri, duke futur ushqim n\u00eb goj\u00eb vet\u00ebm q\u00eb duart dhe nofulla t\u00eb ken\u00eb di\u00e7ka p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb. Fillon pastrimi, sistemimi, ecja lart-e-posht\u00eb, luajtja me objekte \u2013 \u00e7do aktivitet fizik p\u00ebr t\u00eb shmangur uljen ball\u00eb p\u00ebr ball\u00eb me \u00e7far\u00ebdo ndjenje q\u00eb po ngrihet.<\/p>

Ky reagim mekanik krijon nj\u00eb cik\u00ebl shkat\u00ebrrues. Emocioni mbetet i pap\u00ebrpunuar dhe nd\u00ebrton presion. Trupi shterohet nga veprimtaria kompulsive q\u00eb nuk sjell asnj\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi. V\u00ebmendja e njeriut cop\u00ebzohet n\u00eb mij\u00ebra pjes\u00eb, pa mundur t\u00eb pushoj\u00eb askund. Deri n\u00eb mbr\u00ebmje, njeriu ndihet i rraskapitur dhe i hutuar, pa mundur t\u00eb tregoj\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb e ka shteruar, sepse nuk ka qen\u00eb asnj\u00eb \u00e7ast realisht i pranish\u00ebm n\u00eb p\u00ebrvoj\u00ebn e vet.<\/p>

Le t\u00eb v\u00ebzhgohen njer\u00ebzit n\u00eb salla pritjeje, n\u00eb trena, n\u00eb rrug\u00eb. Sa prej tyre mund t\u00eb rrin\u00eb thjesht ulur ose duke ecur, pa i zgjatur duart pajisjeve? Sa prej tyre mund t\u00eb durojn\u00eb edhe pak minuta qet\u00ebsi pa gjetur di\u00e7ka fizike p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb? Kjo l\u00ebvizje kompulsive \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekja e trupit p\u00ebr t\u00eb zgjidhur nj\u00eb parehati emocionale, gj\u00eb q\u00eb nuk mund ta arrij\u00eb kurr\u00eb, sepse l\u00ebvizja trajton probleme t\u00eb tjera nga ato q\u00eb paraqet ndjenja.<\/p>

Shpejt\u00ebsit\u00eb e ndryshme t\u00eb qendrave<\/h2>

P\u00ebr t\u00eb kuptuar pse k\u00ebto z\u00ebvend\u00ebsime krijojn\u00eb aq v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi, duhet kuptuar se \u00e7do qend\u00ebr funksionon n\u00eb shpejt\u00ebsi t\u00eb ndryshme.<\/p>

Qendra e ndjenjave reagon m\u00eb shpejt sesa mund ta ndjek\u00eb mendimi. Nj\u00eb zhurm\u00eb e fort\u00eb e trondit njeriun para se truri i t\u00eb menduarit t\u00eb regjistroj\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb e shkaktoi. Bukuria e godet zemr\u00ebn para se t\u00eb analizohet se \u00e7far\u00eb e b\u00ebn t\u00eb bukur. Rreziku zgjon frik\u00eb para se mendja racionale t\u00eb vler\u00ebsoj\u00eb nivelin e k\u00ebrc\u00ebnimit.<\/p>

Qendra e l\u00ebvizjes punon shum\u00eb shpejt, megjithat\u00eb m\u00eb ngadal\u00eb se ndjenja. Le t\u00eb shihet dikush q\u00eb ka m\u00ebsuar t\u00eb luaj\u00eb piano ose t\u00eb drejtoj\u00eb makin\u00eb mir\u00eb: duart e tij l\u00ebvizin n\u00ebp\u00ebr veprime t\u00eb nd\u00ebrlikuara, t\u00eb koordinuara, shum\u00eb m\u00eb shpejt se sa mund t\u00eb drejtoj\u00eb mendimi i vet\u00ebdijsh\u00ebm \u00e7do l\u00ebvizje. Trupi ka m\u00ebsuar dhe ekzekuton modelet e m\u00ebsuara me shpejt\u00ebsi dhe sakt\u00ebsi t\u00eb habitshme.<\/p>

Qendra e t\u00eb menduarit, n\u00eb krahasim, \u00ebsht\u00eb jasht\u00ebzakonisht e ngadalt\u00eb. Ajo duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrpunoj\u00eb informacionin n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebpasnj\u00ebshme, t\u00eb marr\u00eb n\u00eb konsiderat\u00eb alternativa dhe t\u00eb peshoj\u00eb faktor\u00ebt kundrejt nj\u00ebri-tjetrit. Kjo ngadal\u00ebsi nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb defekt p\u00ebr llojin e pun\u00ebs q\u00eb b\u00ebn mendimi; p\u00ebrkundrazi, kjo kujdesi dhe vones\u00eb jan\u00eb pik\u00ebrisht ato q\u00eb k\u00ebrkohen.<\/p>

Katastrofa ndodh kur nj\u00eb qend\u00ebr e shpejt\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqet t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb pun\u00ebn e nj\u00eb qendre t\u00eb ngadalt\u00eb ose kur nj\u00eb qend\u00ebr e ngadalt\u00eb mundohet t\u00eb menaxhoj\u00eb di\u00e7ka q\u00eb k\u00ebrkon shpejt\u00ebsi. Mendimi nuk mund ta ndjek\u00eb rrjedh\u00ebn e shpejt\u00eb t\u00eb ndjenjave, ndaj e z\u00ebvend\u00ebson p\u00ebrjetimin emocional me analiz\u00eb. Ndjenja nuk mund t\u00eb kryej\u00eb pun\u00ebn e duruar t\u00eb arsyetimit logjik, ndaj e z\u00ebvend\u00ebson me stuhi emocionale n\u00eb vend t\u00eb mendimit t\u00eb qart\u00eb. Trupi nuk mund t\u00eb zgjidh\u00eb probleme emocionale ose intelektuale, ndaj e z\u00ebvend\u00ebson zgjidhjen e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb me veprimtari mekanike.<\/p>

Fabrika e brendshme dhe shp\u00ebrdorimi i energjis\u00eb<\/h2>

Njeriu shp\u00ebrdoron af\u00ebrsisht gjysm\u00ebn e energjis\u00eb s\u00eb vet t\u00eb disponueshme p\u00ebrmes pun\u00ebs s\u00eb gabuar t\u00eb qendrave. Kjo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb as ekzagjerim e as metafor\u00eb.<\/p>

Kur qendra e t\u00eb menduarit p\u00ebrpiqet t\u00eb menaxhoj\u00eb ndjenjat, ajo djeg energji t\u00eb rafinuar q\u00eb mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrdorej p\u00ebr pun\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebfillt\u00eb intelektuale. Kur qendra e ndjenjave uzurpon marrjen e vendimeve, ajo harxhon kapacitet emocional q\u00eb do t\u00eb duhej t\u00eb mbetej i lir\u00eb p\u00ebr momente bukurie, lidhjeje ose reagimi t\u00eb p\u00ebrshtatsh\u00ebm ndaj rrezikut. Kur qendra e l\u00ebvizjes futet n\u00eb veprim kompulsiv p\u00ebr t\u00eb shmangur ndjenjat, ajo shteron energjin\u00eb fizike q\u00eb mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrdorej p\u00ebr veprim t\u00eb q\u00ebllimsh\u00ebm.<\/p>

Le t\u00eb imagjinohet nj\u00eb fabrik\u00eb ku punonj\u00ebsit e zyr\u00ebs e kalojn\u00eb dit\u00ebn n\u00eb dhom\u00ebn e prodhimit, duke provuar t\u00eb p\u00ebrdorin makineri q\u00eb nuk din\u00eb t\u2019i komandojn\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa operator\u00ebt e makinerive ulen n\u00eb zyra duke u munduar t\u00eb menaxhojn\u00eb kontabilitetin q\u00eb nuk e kuptojn\u00eb. Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb, kontabilist\u00ebt p\u00ebrpiqen t\u00eb riparojn\u00eb pajisje t\u00eb prishura pa asnj\u00eb njohuri mekanike.<\/p>

Fabrika do t\u00eb prodhonte pothuajse asgj\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa do t\u00eb konsumonte burime t\u00eb m\u00ebdha dhe do t\u00eb krijonte nj\u00eb kaos t\u00eb vazhduesh\u00ebm.<\/p>

Pik\u00ebrisht k\u00ebshtu funksionon fabrika e brendshme e njeriut shumic\u00ebn e koh\u00ebs. Shp\u00ebrdorimi shfaqet n\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00ebnyra: njeriu ndihet i lodhur megjith\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb pushuar; ndihet i hutuar ndon\u00ebse situata \u00ebsht\u00eb e thjesht\u00eb; ndihet i mbingarkuar edhe pse p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsit\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb menaxhueshme; merr vendime t\u00eb dob\u00ebta megjith\u00ebse ka informacion t\u00eb mir\u00eb; p\u00ebrs\u00ebrit t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtat gabime edhe pasi ka m\u00ebsuar pasojat.<\/p>

E gjith\u00eb kjo buron nga qendra q\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqen t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb pun\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilat nuk jan\u00eb krijuar.<\/p>

Si t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtojm\u00eb pun\u00ebn e drejt\u00eb t\u00eb qendrave<\/h2>

Ajo q\u00eb p\u00ebrshkruhet k\u00ebtu nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb problem q\u00eb zgjidhet me nj\u00eb teknik\u00eb ose me nj\u00eb praktik\u00eb t\u00eb vetme. K\u00ebrkohet v\u00ebzhgim i duruesh\u00ebm i vetes gjat\u00eb muajve dhe viteve, duke m\u00ebsuar gradualisht t\u00eb njihet kur qendrat po b\u00ebjn\u00eb pun\u00eb q\u00eb u p\u00ebrket t\u00eb tjerave, duke i kthyer but\u00ebsisht detyrat n\u00eb vendin e tyre t\u00eb duhur.<\/p>

Le t\u00eb fillohet thjesht. Gjat\u00eb dit\u00ebs, her\u00eb pas here, njeriu mund t\u00eb ndalet dhe t\u2019i b\u00ebj\u00eb vetes pyetjen: cila qend\u00ebr duhet t\u00eb merrej me at\u00eb q\u00eb po p\u00ebrjetohet tani?<\/p>

A po mendohet p\u00ebr nj\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb q\u00eb ka nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb ndjehet?<\/span><\/strong>
A po p\u00ebrjetohet dram\u00eb emocionale rreth nj\u00eb detyre praktike q\u00eb thjesht ka nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb kryhet?<\/span><\/strong>
A po l\u00ebvizet n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb kompulsive p\u00ebr t\u2019iu shmangur di\u00e7kaje q\u00eb k\u00ebrkon v\u00ebmendje?<\/span><\/strong><\/p>

Vet\u00ebm kjo pyetje fillon t\u00eb krijoj\u00eb ndarje midis njeriut dhe modeleve t\u00eb tij automatike. Fillon t\u00eb vihet re se ajo q\u00eb quhet \u201cun\u00eb\u201d n\u00eb fakt jan\u00eb disa procese t\u00eb ndryshme, q\u00eb shpesh punojn\u00eb n\u00eb drejtime t\u00eb kund\u00ebrta. \u201cUn\u00eb\u201d q\u00eb do t\u00eb analizoj\u00eb emocionet \u00ebsht\u00eb ndryshe nga \u201cun\u00eb\u201d q\u00eb ka nevoj\u00eb t\u2019i ndjej\u00eb ato. \u201cUn\u00eb\u201d q\u00eb krijon dram\u00eb emocionale rreth detyrave t\u00eb thjeshta \u00ebsht\u00eb ndryshe nga \u201cun\u00eb\u201d q\u00eb mund t\u2019i kryej\u00eb ato thjesht.<\/p>

Kur lind nj\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, mund t\u00eb ushtrohet leja q\u00eb ajo t\u00eb p\u00ebrjetohet pa nxitim p\u00ebr ta menduar, p\u00ebr ta kuptuar ose p\u00ebr t\u2019i ikur. Trishtimi do t\u00eb jet\u00eb i trishtuar. Zem\u00ebrimi do t\u00eb jet\u00eb i zem\u00ebruar. G\u00ebzimi do t\u00eb jet\u00eb i g\u00ebzuar. \u00c7do ndjenj\u00eb e p\u00ebrfundon vetvetiu ciklin e saj kur nuk nd\u00ebrpritet nga mendimi ose l\u00ebvizja.<\/p>

Koh\u00ebzgjatja reale e nj\u00eb ndjenje, kur lejohet t\u00eb zhvillohet pa nd\u00ebrhyrje, \u00ebsht\u00eb habitsh\u00ebm e shkurt\u00ebr.<\/p>

Kur k\u00ebrkohet mendim, duhen krijuar kushte ku mendimi mund t\u00eb punoj\u00eb: qet\u00ebsi, si e jashtme ashtu edhe e brendshme; largim nga turbullira emocionale dhe nga shqet\u00ebsimi fizik. Shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz zbulojn\u00eb se mund t\u00eb mendojn\u00eb qart\u00eb vet\u00ebm kur ecin vet\u00ebm ose kur rrin\u00eb n\u00eb qet\u00ebsi, sepse k\u00ebto kushte i lejojn\u00eb qendr\u00ebs s\u00eb t\u00eb menduarit t\u00eb punoj\u00eb pa nd\u00ebrhyrje nga qendrat e tjera.<\/p>

Kur trupi ka nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb l\u00ebviz\u00eb, le t\u00eb l\u00ebviz\u00eb. Puna fizike, ushtrimet, vall\u00ebzimi \u2013 t\u00eb gjitha i japin qendr\u00ebs s\u00eb l\u00ebvizjes detyra t\u00eb p\u00ebrshtatshme. Por vlen t\u00eb v\u00ebrehet sa e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht t\u00eb l\u00ebvizet, pa e mbuluar l\u00ebvizjen me dram\u00eb emocionale ose me koment t\u00eb pand\u00ebrprer\u00eb mendor.<\/p>

A mund t\u00eb lahen en\u00ebt me v\u00ebmendje t\u00eb plot\u00eb te ndjesit\u00eb fizike, pa menduar p\u00ebr t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn ose t\u00eb ardhmen, pa u ndjer\u00eb keq p\u00ebr vet\u00eb detyr\u00ebn? Kjo do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u2019i lejohet qendr\u00ebs s\u00eb l\u00ebvizjes t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb pun\u00ebn e vet t\u00eb past\u00ebr.<\/p>

Gjendja natyrore e njeriut<\/h2>

Le t\u00eb imagjinohet t\u00eb p\u00ebrjetohet qoft\u00eb edhe nj\u00eb or\u00eb e vetme, ku secila qend\u00ebr b\u00ebn vet\u00ebm pun\u00ebn e vet. Mendimet shfaqen kur k\u00ebrkohet mendim dhe pushojn\u00eb kur nuk ka pun\u00eb p\u00ebr to. Ndjenjat rrjedhin natyrsh\u00ebm si p\u00ebrgjigje ndaj nxitjeve t\u00eb p\u00ebrshtatshme dhe pastaj p\u00ebrfundojn\u00eb pa u zvarritur. Trupi l\u00ebviz n\u00ebp\u00ebr detyrat e tij me hir dhe efikasitet, duke pushuar kur i duhet pushim.<\/p>

Sa shum\u00eb energji do t\u00eb mbetej e lir\u00eb p\u00ebr ta jetuar v\u00ebrtet jet\u00ebn, n\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb p\u00ebr mir\u00ebmbajtjen e kaosit t\u00eb brendsh\u00ebm?<\/p>

Kjo gjendje nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb fantazi; \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebnyra si \u00ebsht\u00eb krijuar t\u00eb funksionoj\u00eb njeriu. Puna e gabuar e qendrave \u00ebsht\u00eb sjellje e m\u00ebsuar, e p\u00ebrforcuar nga kultura dhe nga zakoni, por nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb gjendja jon\u00eb natyrore. F\u00ebmij\u00ebt shfaqin momente funksionimi t\u00eb drejt\u00eb p\u00ebrpara se \u201carsimi\u201d t\u2019i m\u00ebsoj\u00eb t\u00eb mendojn\u00eb rreth ndjenjave t\u00eb tyre, t\u00eb dramatizojn\u00eb mendimet dhe t\u00eb l\u00ebvizin n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb kompulsive p\u00ebr t\u2019iu shmangur parehatise.<\/p>

Puna e vetme q\u00eb ia vlen<\/h2>

Puna q\u00eb p\u00ebrshkruhet k\u00ebtu k\u00ebrkon gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb njeriu ka. Ajo k\u00ebrkon v\u00ebzhgim t\u00eb \u201cpam\u00ebshirsh\u00ebm\u201d t\u00eb vetes, njohje t\u00eb modeleve mekanike dhe nd\u00ebrprerje t\u00eb tyre sapo kapen n\u00eb veprim. K\u00ebrkon krijimin e kushteve n\u00eb jet\u00eb ku b\u00ebhet e mundur puna e drejt\u00eb e qendrave. K\u00ebrkon q\u00eb njeriu t\u00eb vler\u00ebsoj\u00eb funksionimin e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb se rehatin\u00eb e \u00e7rregullsis\u00eb s\u00eb m\u00ebsuar.<\/p>

Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb e vetmja pun\u00eb q\u00eb ia vlen t\u00eb b\u00ebhet. Gjith\u00e7ka tjet\u00ebr q\u00eb arrihet n\u00eb jet\u00eb ndodh brenda kaosit t\u00eb pun\u00ebs s\u00eb gabuar t\u00eb qendrave. Vet\u00ebm duke sjell\u00eb rend n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb fabrik\u00eb t\u00eb brendshme njeriu mund t\u00eb filloj\u00eb t\u00eb prodhoj\u00eb di\u00e7ka me vler\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, di\u00e7ka q\u00eb mund t\u00eb mbijetoj\u00eb edhe pas vdekjes fizike, di\u00e7ka q\u00eb mund t\u00eb justifikoj\u00eb dhurat\u00ebn e jasht\u00ebzakonshme t\u00eb vet\u00ebdijes q\u00eb i \u00ebsht\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb.<\/p>

Kur \u00e7do qend\u00ebr b\u00ebn vet\u00ebm pun\u00ebn e vet, zbulohet se ekziston shum\u00eb m\u00eb tep\u00ebr energji sesa \u00ebsht\u00eb imagjinuar ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb, m\u00eb shum\u00eb qart\u00ebsi nga sa besohej e arritshme dhe nj\u00eb cil\u00ebsi pranie q\u00eb e shnd\u00ebrron \u00e7do aspekt t\u00eb ekzistenc\u00ebs.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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