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Nj\u00eb grua nuk duhet ta kuptosh, por duhet ta duash: kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb gj\u00ebja e par\u00eb q\u00eb duhet kuptuar. Gruaja \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e dashur sepse nuk jeton sipas logjik\u00ebs dhe arsyes, por thjesht n\u00eb baz\u00eb t\u00eb emocioneve dhe zemr\u00ebs, dhe kjo m\u00ebnyr\u00eb e zemr\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb e mrekullueshme, por e rrezikshme, nd\u00ebrsa m\u00ebnyra e mendjes \u00ebsht\u00eb e zakonshme, por e sigurt. N\u00eb jet\u00eb, burri ka zgjedhur rrug\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb shkurt\u00ebr dhe m\u00eb t\u00eb sigurt, nd\u00ebrsa gruaja ka zgjedhur rrug\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00ebrheq\u00ebse – por edhe m\u00eb t\u00eb rrezikshme – t\u00eb emocioneve dhe ndjenjave. Dhe duke qen\u00eb se bota deri m\u00eb tani \u00ebsht\u00eb sunduar nga burrat, gruaja ka vuajtur jasht\u00ebzakonisht shum\u00eb: ajo nuk ka qen\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb p\u00ebrshtatet me shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb e krijuar nga mendja mashkullore sepse \u00ebsht\u00eb e nd\u00ebrtuar mbi baz\u00ebn e arsyes dhe logjik\u00ebs, nd\u00ebrsa ajo d\u00ebshiron nj\u00eb bot\u00eb q\u00eb vjen nga zemra.<\/p>

Por ana tjet\u00ebr e dashuris\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb urrejtja dhe xhelozia; n\u00ebse nj\u00eb grua mbetet e burgosur aty, t\u00eb gjitha bukurit\u00eb e dashuris\u00eb zhduken, duke l\u00ebn\u00eb vet\u00ebm helmin, me t\u00eb cilin ajo do t\u00eb p\u00ebrfundoj\u00eb duke intoksikuar veten dhe k\u00ebdo q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrreth saj. N\u00ebse dashuroni, duhet t\u00eb jeni shum\u00eb t\u00eb kujdessh\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos r\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb humner\u00ebn e urrejtjes: ku \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb leht\u00eb t\u00eb rr\u00ebshqas\u00ebsh. Ndoshta kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb arsyeja pse shum\u00eb gra vendosin t\u00eb mos dashurojn\u00eb dhe pse burri ka vendosur t\u00eb jetoj\u00eb n\u00eb mendje, duke harruar plot\u00ebsisht zemr\u00ebn. Zemra \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e ndjeshme dhe d\u00ebmtohet shum\u00eb leht\u00eb. Prandaj gruaja duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb shum\u00eb e kujdesshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos r\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb urrejtje, xhelozi dhe zem\u00ebrim. Ajo duhet t’i kujtoj\u00eb k\u00ebto gj\u00ebra dhe duhet ta mbroj\u00eb zemr\u00ebn e saj q\u00eb ato t\u00eb mos shkat\u00ebrrojn\u00eb thesarin e saj m\u00eb t\u00eb \u00e7muar, q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb dashuria.<\/p>

Gruaja duhet t\u00eb braktis\u00eb urrejtjen dhe xhelozin\u00eb, dhe burri duhet t\u00eb braktis\u00eb logjik\u00ebn dhe t\u00eb dashuroj\u00eb pak m\u00eb shum\u00eb. Dhe t\u00eb dy duhet t\u00eb shkojn\u00eb m\u00eb thell\u00eb n\u00eb dashuri: sa m\u00eb thell\u00eb t\u00eb shkojn\u00eb, aq m\u00eb af\u00ebr arrijn\u00eb n\u00eb esenc\u00ebn e tyre. Burrat keqtrajtuan, shtyp\u00ebn dhe d\u00ebnuan grat\u00eb pa e ditur se kjo i b\u00ebnte ata inferior\u00eb, sepse ata penguan gjysm\u00ebn e njer\u00ebzimit t\u00eb rris\u00eb vet\u00ebdijen dhe duke b\u00ebr\u00eb k\u00ebshtu, ata gjithashtu i mohuan vetes mund\u00ebsin\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb m\u00ebsuar nga universi fem\u00ebror artin e ngritjes. N\u00eb fakt, edhe ata mund t\u00eb kishin ndjekur t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn rrug\u00eb dhe t\u00eb shfryt\u00ebzonin t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn rrug\u00eb. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye gjithmon\u00eb them se \u00e7lirimi i grave \u00ebsht\u00eb gjithashtu \u00e7lirim i burrave; n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb paraqet nj\u00eb \u00e7lirim m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr burrin sesa p\u00ebr gruan.<\/p>

Pse nuk e kan\u00eb \u00e7liruar ende veten grat\u00eb?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>

Nj\u00eb nga arsyet pse grat\u00eb ende nuk e kan\u00eb \u00e7liruar veten \u00ebsht\u00eb se ato nuk mund t\u00eb bashkojn\u00eb forcat, ato ndiejn\u00eb zili ndaj grave t\u00eb tjera, p\u00ebr rroba m\u00eb t\u00eb bukura, xhevahire m\u00eb t\u00eb \u00e7muara, nj\u00eb makin\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb shtrenjt\u00eb, nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe etj… e vetmja lidhje q\u00eb ato kan\u00eb me grat\u00eb e tjera \u00ebsht\u00eb zilia. Fakti q\u00eb \u00e7do grua \u00ebsht\u00eb ziliqare p\u00ebr t\u00eb tjerat \u00ebsht\u00eb natyrisht nj\u00eb nga shkaqet kryesore t\u00eb skllav\u00ebris\u00eb s\u00eb tyre. Ato nuk mund t\u00eb b\u00ebhen nj\u00eb forc\u00eb e bashkuar, sepse n\u00ebse do ta b\u00ebnin, ato do t\u00eb p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsonin gjysm\u00ebn e njer\u00ebzimit dhe do t\u00eb kishin qen\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb \u00e7liroheshin shum\u00eb koh\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb. N\u00ebse do t\u00eb kishin dashur t\u00eb \u00e7liroheshin, asgj\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb mund t\u2019i pengonte, por ato jan\u00eb armiq t\u00eb vetvetes! Secila prej jush duhet t\u00eb kujtoj\u00eb se burri ka arritur t\u00eb ju ndaj\u00eb me aq dinak\u00ebri sa t’ju pengoj\u00eb t\u00eb bashkoni forcat.<\/p>

Kush \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb budalla, burri apo gruaja?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>

Po ju tregoj nj\u00eb anekdot\u00eb.
Nj\u00eb burr\u00eb i tha gruas s\u00eb tij: “Pse Zoti ju krijoi kaq t\u00eb bukura?”<\/em>
Gruaja u p\u00ebrgjigj: “Q\u00eb burrat t\u00eb bien n\u00eb dashuri me ne!”.
Burri e pyeti s\u00ebrish: “At\u00ebher\u00eb, pse ju b\u00ebri kaq budallaqe?”.
“Q\u00eb edhe ne t\u00eb mund t\u00eb biem n\u00eb dashuri me ju!” – u p\u00ebrgjigj gruaja.<\/em><\/p>

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P\u00ebr \u00e7far\u00eb ka nevoj\u00eb gruaja sot?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>

Gruaja duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb e arsimuar, duhet t\u00eb ket\u00eb pavar\u00ebsi financiare, duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb an\u00ebtar i familjes q\u00eb nuk duhet t\u00eb varet nga burri. Gruaja duhet t\u00eb ket\u00eb l\u00ebvizje t\u00eb lir\u00eb n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri sikurse edhe burri. Gruaja duhet t\u00eb ket\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb krijuese, t\u00eb luaj\u00eb muzik\u00eb, t\u00eb pikturoj\u00eb, t\u00eb lexoj\u00eb, t\u00eb shkruaj\u00eb. Dhe do t\u00eb befasoheni – e gjith\u00eb bezdisja dhe ankesat e saj do t\u00eb zhduken, e gjith\u00eb eg\u00ebrsia e saj do t\u00eb largohet, sepse ajo energji \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb krijuese tani.<\/p>

Ju nuk mund ta gjykoni gruan, sepse n\u00ebse doni t\u00eb keni nj\u00eb p\u00ebrvoj\u00eb t\u00eb asaj q\u00eb ajo b\u00ebn, at\u00ebher\u00eb merrni vet\u00ebm pun\u00ebn e saj p\u00ebr nj\u00ebzet e kat\u00ebr or\u00eb. S\u00eb pari gatuaj ushqimin – at\u00ebher\u00eb do ta kuptosh! Pastaj kujdesu p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, q\u00eb jan\u00eb \u201cdjaj\u201d t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. Vet\u00ebm nj\u00ebzet e kat\u00ebr or\u00eb provojeni t\u00eb jeni n\u00eb rolin e gruas! \u00cbsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e natyrshme q\u00eb gruaja \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb e bezdisshme dhe luftuese. Dhe mund ta shihni q\u00eb ajo nuk e ka nd\u00ebrmend k\u00ebt\u00eb. Kur ajo shpreh inatin, kur ajo hedh jast\u00ebkun drejt jush, mund ta shihni – nuk ju godet kurr\u00eb.<\/p>

Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb se ajo nuk mund t\u00eb t\u00eb godas\u00eb, por ajo nuk d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb t\u00eb godas\u00eb. Thjesht \u00ebsht\u00eb zem\u00ebrim q\u00eb shprehet disi. Ajo kurr\u00eb nuk hedh gj\u00ebra t\u00eb r\u00ebnda tek ju … ajo kurr\u00eb nuk e b\u00ebn. Dhe n\u00ebse shikoni me kujdes, ajo gjithmon\u00eb godet me gj\u00ebra t\u00eb cilat jan\u00eb pa vler\u00eb – ajo d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb shp\u00ebtoj\u00eb prej tyre, thjesht do t\u2019i nd\u00ebrroj\u00eb! Ato ishin pjata t\u00eb padobishme. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb e kujdesshme; ajo e di \u00e7far\u00eb b\u00ebn – sepse k\u00eb do t\u00eb l\u00ebndoj\u00eb? Por zem\u00ebrimi \u00ebsht\u00eb aty dhe duhet t\u00eb shprehet. N\u00eb qoft\u00eb se nuk i jepni nj\u00eb dimension krijues k\u00ebshtu do t\u00eb vazhdoj\u00eb… dhe m\u00ebnyra e vetme e mundshme \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb burri dhe gruaja t\u00eb dy duhet t\u00eb \u00e7lirohen nga nj\u00ebri-tjetri.<\/p>

L\u00ebvizja p\u00ebr \u00e7lirim nuk duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb vet\u00ebm \u00e7lirim i grave, ajo duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb \u00e7lirim i burrave dhe grave – s\u00eb bashku, sepse t\u00eb dy jan\u00eb n\u00eb skllav\u00ebri. \u00cbsht\u00eb e nd\u00ebrvarur. Vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb b\u00ebhet i lir\u00eb; ata t\u00eb dy mund t\u00eb b\u00ebhen t\u00eb lir\u00eb ose t\u00eb dy do t\u00eb mbeten skllev\u00ebr. L\u00ebvizja \u00e7lirimit t\u00eb grave nuk e ka kuptuar at\u00eb ende dhe i duhet nj\u00eb ndryshim i t\u00ebr\u00eb psikologjik. Psikologjia e gruas \u00ebsht\u00eb e ndotur nga g\u00ebnjeshtrat q\u00eb burri i thot\u00eb, duke e b\u00ebr\u00eb at\u00eb nj\u00eb skllave n\u00eb sh\u00ebrbimin e tij dhe duke e zvog\u00ebluar at\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb qenie njer\u00ebzore t\u00eb shkall\u00ebs s\u00eb dyt\u00eb. Burri sillet n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb sepse \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb i fort\u00eb nga pik\u00ebpamja fizike; por forca muskulare \u00ebsht\u00eb pjes\u00eb e aspekteve t\u00eb kafsh\u00ebve: n\u00ebse ky do t\u00eb ishte kriteri p\u00ebr vendosjen e ep\u00ebrsis\u00eb, at\u00ebher\u00eb \u00e7do kafsh\u00eb, n\u00eb nj\u00eb nivel fizik, \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e fuqishme se njeriu!<\/p>

Grat\u00eb jan\u00eb padyshim m\u00eb t\u00eb guximshme se burrat. N\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha kulturat e bot\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb gruaja q\u00eb l\u00eb familjen e saj t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb dhe t\u00eb jetoj\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb t\u00eb burrit t\u00eb saj; braktis n\u00ebn\u00ebn, baban\u00eb, miqt\u00eb, qytetin dhe gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb ka dashur dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb rritur: i sakrifikon t\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto p\u00ebr dashurin\u00eb! Burri nuk do t\u00eb ishte n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb b\u00ebnte t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn gj\u00eb. Gruaja u sh\u00ebmtua sepse ishte e mbizot\u00ebruar, torturuar dhe kthyer n\u00eb hi\u00e7. Kur natyra juaj parandalohet t\u00eb evoluoj\u00eb sipas nevojave tuaja t\u00eb brendshme, ajo b\u00ebhet e thart\u00eb, e helmuar, ngrin dhe paralizohet, duke u b\u00ebr\u00eb e \u00e7oroditur. Gruaja e sotme nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb as grua, sepse \u00ebsht\u00eb helmuar me shekuj. Dhe n\u00ebse gruaja \u00ebsht\u00eb e kontaminuar, edhe burri vuan pasojat, sepse, n\u00eb fund t\u00eb fundit, edhe ai vjen n\u00eb bot\u00eb nga nj\u00eb grua; n\u00ebse ajo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e natyrshme, f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e saj nuk do t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb natyrsh\u00ebm, sepse kur t\u00eb b\u00ebhet n\u00ebn\u00eb, f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e saj – mashkull ose fem\u00ebr ashtu – do t\u00eb kontaminohen nga karakteri i saj.<\/p>

Dita e \u00e7lirimit t\u00eb grave do t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb dit\u00eb e madhe \u00e7lirimi edhe p\u00ebr burrat. Por mos e b\u00ebni t\u00eb sh\u00ebmtuar. P\u00ebrndryshe ekziston \u00e7do mund\u00ebsi – kam frik\u00eb se ekziston mund\u00ebsia q\u00eb gjat\u00eb luftimit me burrat, grat\u00eb mund t\u00eb humbasin di\u00e7ka q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb me vler\u00eb. Di\u00e7ka q\u00eb ende nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb shkat\u00ebrruar nga burrat mund t\u00eb shkat\u00ebrrohet nga vet\u00eb grat\u00eb n\u00eb luft\u00ebn me burrat. N\u00ebse luftoni n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb eg\u00ebr do t\u00eb humbni bukurin\u00eb e feminitetit; ju vet\u00eb do t\u00eb b\u00ebheni po aq t\u00eb sh\u00ebmtuara sa edhe burrat.<\/em><\/p>

L\u00ebvizja e \u00e7lirimit \u00a0t\u00eb grave demonstron, kudo n\u00eb bot\u00eb, sakt\u00ebsisht t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin lloj agresioni. Grat\u00eb q\u00eb iu bashkuan asaj jan\u00eb shum\u00eb agresive dhe po humbasin t\u00eb gjith\u00eb hirin q\u00eb vjen nga intuita, sepse n\u00ebse duhet t\u00eb luftosh kund\u00ebr burrave, je i detyruar t\u00eb m\u00ebsosh truket e tyre dhe t\u00eb p\u00ebrdor\u00ebsh teknikat e tyre. Luftimi i dikujt \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb i rreziksh\u00ebm: sepse n\u00ebse futesh n\u00eb luft\u00eb me dik\u00eb, gradualisht je i detyruar t\u00eb p\u00ebrdor\u00ebsh teknikat dhe metodat e tij dhe nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb je shnd\u00ebrruar n\u00eb armikun t\u00ebnd … Un\u00eb mund ta kuptoj agresivitetin e tyre: shekuj dhe shekuj dominimi i kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb ato t\u00eb dhunshme, \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht hakmarrje; ato e kan\u00eb humbur arsyen e tyre dhe i vetmi p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb burri.<\/p>

\u00c7lirimi i v\u00ebrtet\u00eb do ta kthej\u00eb gruan n\u00eb nj\u00eb grua autentike dhe jo nj\u00eb kopje t\u00eb keqe t\u00eb nj\u00eb burri, sepse kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb po ndodh tani: grat\u00eb po p\u00ebrpiqen t\u00eb jen\u00eb sakt\u00ebsisht si burrat. N\u00ebse burrat pin\u00eb duhan, edhe grat\u00eb pin\u00eb duhan; n\u00ebse burrat b\u00ebjn\u00eb di\u00e7ka, grat\u00eb gjithashtu b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn gj\u00eb: \u00e7far\u00ebdo q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb burrat, edhe grat\u00eb duhet ta b\u00ebjn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb dhe ato thjesht kthehen n\u00eb burra t\u00eb nivelit t\u00eb dyt\u00eb. Ajo q\u00eb po ndodh nuk ka asnj\u00eb lidhje me \u00e7lirimin dhe b\u00ebhet nj\u00eb skllav\u00ebri shum\u00eb m\u00eb e thell\u00eb. Ajo ka rr\u00ebnj\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb thella sepse nd\u00ebrsa forma e par\u00eb e skllav\u00ebris\u00eb u imponohej grave nga burrat, kjo form\u00eb e dyt\u00eb e skllav\u00ebris\u00eb u krijua nga vet\u00eb gruaja; prandaj \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e thell\u00eb sepse, kur ju imponohet nga dikush tjet\u00ebr, mund t\u00eb rebeloheni; n\u00ebse, nga ana tjet\u00ebr, ju jeni ai q\u00eb importon skllav\u00ebri n\u00eb em\u00ebr t\u00eb \u00e7lirimit, nuk keni m\u00eb asnj\u00eb shans p\u00ebr rebelim.<\/p>

Do t\u00eb d\u00ebshiroja q\u00eb gruaja t\u00eb b\u00ebhej v\u00ebrtet grua dhe kjo varet kryesisht nga ajo. Gruaja \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme se burri, sepse mbart si femr\u00ebn ashtu edhe mashkullin, \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00ebna e djalit dhe vajz\u00ebs, i ushqen t\u00eb dy; n\u00ebse gruaja \u00ebsht\u00eb e helmuar, qum\u00ebshti i saj gjithashtu do t\u00eb helmohet dhe m\u00ebnyra e saj e rritjes s\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve gjithashtu do t\u00eb ndotet. N\u00ebse gruaja nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb v\u00ebrtet e lir\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb grua, burri nuk do t\u00eb jet\u00eb kurr\u00eb burr\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. Liria e gruas \u00ebsht\u00eb thelb\u00ebsore p\u00ebr lirin\u00eb e burrit dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe m\u00eb themelore sesa liria e vet\u00eb burrit. Dhe n\u00ebse gruaja \u00ebsht\u00eb skllave, si\u00e7 ka qen\u00eb me shekuj, ajo do ta b\u00ebj\u00eb edhe burrin skllav, edhe pse e b\u00ebn k\u00ebt\u00eb n\u00eb heshtje, pasi dinamika e femr\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb delikate.<\/p>

Ajo nuk do t\u00eb p\u00ebrplaset direkt me ju, lufta e saj do t\u00eb jet\u00eb indirekte, do t\u00eb jet\u00eb fem\u00ebrore; ajo do t\u00eb qaj\u00eb dhe d\u00ebshp\u00ebrohet, ajo nuk do t’ju godas\u00eb, por p\u00ebrkundrazi do t\u00eb d\u00ebmtoj\u00eb veten, dhe p\u00ebrmes lot\u00ebve dhe lot\u00ebve do t\u00eb arrij\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb t\u00eb dor\u00ebzohen edhe burrat m\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb. Nj\u00eb grua jasht\u00ebzakonisht e brisht\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e aft\u00eb t\u00eb mbizot\u00ebroj\u00eb edhe nj\u00eb burr\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb fuqish\u00ebm … Gruaja ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr liri totale, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb ajo t’i jap\u00eb edhe burrit liri. Nj\u00eb nga gj\u00ebrat m\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbajtur mend \u00ebsht\u00eb se duke skllav\u00ebruar dik\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, edhe ju p\u00ebrfundimisht do t\u00eb skllav\u00ebroheni: nuk do t\u00eb jeni n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb q\u00ebndroni t\u00eb lir\u00eb. N\u00ebse doni t\u00eb q\u00ebndroni t\u00eb till\u00eb, jepni lirin\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve, sepse kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebnyra e vetme p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb v\u00ebrtet t\u00eb lir\u00eb.<\/p>

A jeni kund\u00ebr l\u00ebvizjes s\u00eb \u00e7lirimit t\u00eb grave?<\/strong><\/p>

L\u00ebvizja \u00e7lirimit t\u00eb grave \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb gj\u00eb e tmerrshme dhe un\u00eb e di shum\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsia duhet t’i atribuohet mashkullit shovinist. Gjat\u00eb shekujve, burrat u kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb kaq shum\u00eb d\u00ebm grave, saq\u00eb sot ato d\u00ebshirojn\u00eb t\u00eb hakmerren; por kur filloni t\u00eb mendoni p\u00ebr hakmarrje, b\u00ebheni shkat\u00ebrrues. \u00cbsht\u00eb e kot\u00eb t\u00eb vazhdosh t\u00eb shikosh plag\u00ebt e s\u00eb kaluar\u00ebs; nuk ka asnj\u00eb vler\u00eb t\u00eb provoni t\u00eb hakmerreni p\u00ebr t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn, p\u00ebrkundrazi duhet t\u00eb m\u00ebsoni t\u00eb falni dhe t\u00eb harroni. Grat\u00eb, mund t’i japin fund k\u00ebtij rrethi vicioz, sepse ato jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb afta p\u00ebr dashuri dhe dhembshuri. Burri \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb agresiv, m\u00eb i dhunsh\u00ebm …<\/p>

Un\u00eb nuk kam shpresa t\u00eb m\u00ebdha te burrat: kam shum\u00eb m\u00eb tep\u00ebr shpres\u00eb te grat\u00eb dhe kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb arsyeja pse nuk jam n\u00eb favor t\u00eb q\u00ebndrimit agresiv t\u00eb L\u00ebvizjes \u00c7lirimit t\u00eb Grave. Problemet e jet\u00ebs nuk mund t\u00eb zgjidhen me nj\u00eb qasje t\u00eb dhunshme, por vet\u00ebm me dashuri. Burr\u00eb e grua jan\u00eb dy universe t\u00eb ndryshme, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb p\u00ebr ta t\u00eb kuptojn\u00eb nj\u00ebri-tjetrin. Nga ana tjet\u00ebr, edhe n\u00ebse e kaluara \u00ebsht\u00eb e mbushur me keqkuptime, e ardhmja nuk ka pse t\u00eb jet\u00eb k\u00ebshtu; n\u00eb vend t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj, ne mund t\u00eb m\u00ebsojm\u00eb di\u00e7ka nga historia jon\u00eb dhe m\u00ebsimi i vet\u00ebm q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb m\u00ebsohet \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb burrat dhe grat\u00eb duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebhen m\u00eb t\u00eb kuptuesh\u00ebm ndaj nj\u00ebri-tjetrit dhe m\u00eb t\u00eb aft\u00eb t\u00eb pranojn\u00eb dallimet e nj\u00ebri-tjetrit.<\/p>

K\u00ebto dallime jan\u00eb t\u00eb vlefshme dhe nuk duhet domosdoshm\u00ebrisht t\u00eb \u00e7ojn\u00eb n\u00eb konflikt; p\u00ebrkundrazi, ato jan\u00eb arsyeja e t\u00ebrheqjes q\u00eb ekziston midis burrit dhe gruas. N\u00ebse do zhdukeshin t\u00eb gjitha dallimet e tyre, n\u00ebse burrat dhe grat\u00eb do t\u00eb kishin t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin profil psikologjik, dashuria gjithashtu do t\u00eb zhdukej, sepse nuk do t\u00eb kishte m\u00eb asnj\u00eb polaritet. Burri dhe gruaja jan\u00eb si polet negative dhe pozitive t\u00eb energjis\u00eb elektrike: ato t\u00ebrhiqen ndaj nj\u00ebri-tjetrit si magnet; ato jan\u00eb dy pole t\u00eb kund\u00ebrta, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e natyrshme q\u00eb midis tyre ekziston nj\u00eb konflikt, por fal\u00eb mir\u00ebkuptimit, dashuris\u00eb, dhembshuris\u00eb dhe aft\u00ebsis\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb par\u00eb bot\u00ebn e tjetrit me nj\u00eb q\u00ebndrim miq\u00ebsor, \u00ebsht\u00eb e mundur q\u00eb t\u00eb zgjidhet \u00e7do problem.<\/p>

Nuk ka nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb krijoni pengesa t\u00eb m\u00ebtejshme: \u00ebsht\u00eb koha t\u00eb ndaloni! Burrit i duhet liri po aq sa edhe gruas; burrat dhe grat\u00eb t\u00eb dy duhet t\u00eb \u00e7lirohen … por nga mendja! Ata duhet t\u00eb bashk\u00ebpunojn\u00eb dhe t\u00eb ndihmojn\u00eb nj\u00ebri-tjetrin t\u00eb \u00e7lirohen nga mendja: kjo do t\u00eb ishte nj\u00eb l\u00ebvizje e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb \u00e7lirimtare! Grat\u00eb kan\u00eb besim dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb e leht\u00eb p\u00ebr to t\u00eb besojn\u00eb; dashuria \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e natyrshme p\u00ebr to sesa logjika dhe ato mbi t\u00eb gjitha merren me gj\u00ebra imediate. N\u00eb vend t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj, burri vazhdimisht harton taktika dhe strategji, duke u shqet\u00ebsuar se \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb dhe si do t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb, duke menduar p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhmen dhe duke planifikuar…<\/p>

Atmosfera e p\u00ebrgjithshme n\u00eb dit\u00ebt e sotme d\u00ebshiron q\u00eb grat\u00eb t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb barabarta me burrat. N\u00eb \u00e7do pjes\u00eb t\u00eb bot\u00ebs, grupe t\u00eb grave n\u00eb dit\u00ebt e sotme mblidhen p\u00ebr t\u00eb rritur vet\u00ebdijen e tyre, por t\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto seanca vet\u00eb-nd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsuese japin vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb rezultat: shkat\u00ebrrimin e di\u00e7kaje t\u00eb rr\u00ebnjosur thell\u00eb n\u00eb feminitetin e tyre, sepse vet\u00ebm n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb ato do t\u00eb jen\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb konkurojn\u00eb me burrat. Nga natyra, grat\u00eb jan\u00eb delikate dhe nuk mund t\u00eb konkurojn\u00eb me burrat; n\u00ebse duan ta b\u00ebjn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb, do t\u00eb duhet t\u00eb ngurt\u00ebsohen; p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye, kur t\u00eb takoni nj\u00eb feministe, do t\u00eb vini re q\u00eb fytyra e saj ka humbur delikates\u00ebn e saj.<\/p>

K\u00ebshtu gjenerohet ngurt\u00ebsia. Ju ndoshta po b\u00ebni nj\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekje p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos pasur m\u00eb interes p\u00ebr sht\u00ebpin\u00eb, sepse kjo ju pengon t\u00eb jeni konkurrues n\u00eb bot\u00eb dhe nuk mund t\u00eb jeni kompetitive n\u00ebse kujdeseni p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tuaj, sepse ata jan\u00eb shp\u00ebrqendrim. N\u00ebse duhet t\u00eb garoni n\u00eb bot\u00eb dhe t\u00eb provoni se jeni po aq t\u00eb forta sa burrat, duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebheni disi si ata. Por, kjo do t\u00eb dal\u00eb se \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb humbje serioze, sepse e vetmja shpres\u00eb p\u00ebr njer\u00ebzimin nuk q\u00ebndron n\u00eb ngurt\u00ebsin\u00eb e burrit, por n\u00eb delikates\u00ebn e gruas. Tashm\u00eb kemi vuajtur mjaft p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb ngurt\u00ebsis\u00eb s\u00eb mashkullit; njer\u00ebzimi nuk ka nevoj\u00eb q\u00eb gruaja t\u00eb duket m\u00eb shum\u00eb si burr\u00eb, por p\u00ebrkundrazi q\u00eb burri b\u00ebhet m\u00eb shum\u00eb si grua!<\/p>

Grat\u00eb po p\u00ebrpiqen shum\u00eb t\u00eb largohen nga vetja, por kjo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e natyrshme. Ajo q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb e natyrshme n\u00eb nj\u00eb grua \u00ebsht\u00eb barku i saj, barku i saj q\u00eb d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb krijoj\u00eb nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb, i cili d\u00ebshiron nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi. Sht\u00ebpia \u00ebsht\u00eb manifestimi i jasht\u00ebm i mitr\u00ebs s\u00eb femr\u00ebs, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb projeksion i barkut t\u00eb saj t\u00eb brendsh\u00ebm dhe kur gruaja nuk kujdeset m\u00eb p\u00ebr sht\u00ebpin\u00eb, ajo nuk kujdeset m\u00eb as p\u00ebr barkun m\u00ebm\u00ebsor t\u00eb saj, q\u00eb megjithat\u00eb vazhdon t\u00eb ekzistoj\u00eb.<\/p>

Burrat dhe grat\u00eb nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebsoj: si mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb nj\u00ebsoj? Nuk po them q\u00eb nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb barabart\u00eb me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin, por po them q\u00eb sigurisht q\u00eb nuk jan\u00eb nj\u00ebsoj. Ata jan\u00eb kaq t\u00eb ndrysh\u00ebm! Si mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb nj\u00ebsoj? Ata jan\u00eb dy pole t\u00eb kund\u00ebrta; ata jan\u00eb aq t\u00eb ndrysh\u00ebm sa q\u00eb as nuk mund t\u00eb krahasohen sa i p\u00ebrket barazis\u00eb dhe pabarazis\u00eb. Gruaja \u00ebsht\u00eb grua dhe burri \u00ebsht\u00eb burr\u00eb dhe duhet t\u00eb vazhdojn\u00eb t\u00eb q\u00ebndrojn\u00eb k\u00ebshtu; gruaja duhet t\u00eb vazhdoj\u00eb t\u00eb ket\u00eb nj\u00eb interes p\u00ebr sht\u00ebpin\u00eb, sepse kur ajo pushon s\u00eb vepruari, ajo gjithashtu pushon s\u00eb interesuari p\u00ebr barkun dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e saj dhe m\u00eb pas b\u00ebhet natyrsh\u00ebm nj\u00eb lezbike.<\/p>

Un\u00eb besoj se burri gjithashtu duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebhet pak m\u00eb fem\u00ebror; ai e ka ekzagjeruar duke dashur t\u00eb jet\u00eb mashkull, duke humbur plot\u00ebsisht shikimin. Mos ndiqni gjurm\u00ebt e tij, mos konkuroni me t\u00eb, p\u00ebrndryshe do t\u00eb gjeni veten n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e tij, t\u00eb burgosura n\u00eb zakonet e tij: do t\u00eb b\u00ebheni luftarake dhe feministet q\u00eb qajn\u00eb dhe b\u00ebrtasin, duke protestuar n\u00eb rrug\u00eb, jan\u00eb thjesht t\u00eb tmerrshme; gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb ato b\u00ebjn\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb tregojn\u00eb tiparet m\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebqija t\u00eb mendjes mashkullore!<\/p>

Osho – Nuk mund t’i kuptoj p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsimet e tua p\u00ebr llojin mashkull dhe fem\u00ebr. Nganj\u00ebher\u00eb ju i njihni parimet mashkullore dhe fem\u00ebrore pavar\u00ebsisht nga gjinia, por n\u00eb shumic\u00ebn e rasteve ju flisni p\u00ebr gruan sikur t\u00eb ishte pjesa “primitive”, e cila gjen “ujkun grabitqar” tek mashkulli. Po p\u00ebr gruan q\u00eb natyrsh\u00ebm merr iniciativ\u00ebn, apo q\u00eb e sheh “kotelen” n\u00eb vend t\u00eb “ujkut” n\u00eb burrin e saj? Ka burra q\u00eb sinqerisht d\u00ebshirojn\u00eb t\u00eb jen\u00eb pasiv\u00eb dhe ka gra q\u00eb mund t\u00eb ken\u00eb nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb pretendojn\u00eb se roli i tyre t\u00eb rritet. Si \u00ebsht\u00eb e mundur q\u00eb L\u00ebvizja \u00e7lirimit thjesht i shnd\u00ebrron grat\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb qenie “artificiale” dhe hiperacionale?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>

Kur them se grat\u00eb jan\u00eb m\u00eb primitive se burrat, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019i faj\u00ebsuar ato, por p\u00ebr t\u00eb d\u00ebnuar burrat; Me “primitive” dua t\u00eb them m\u00eb e natyrshme, m\u00eb n\u00eb p\u00ebrputhje me ekzistenc\u00ebn. Ideja e civilizimit \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb falsifikim q\u00eb ju largon nga natyra. Sa m\u00eb e civilizuar b\u00ebhet qenia njer\u00ebzore, aq m\u00eb e bllokuar b\u00ebhet n\u00eb mendje, duke humbur kontaktin me zemr\u00ebn e saj. Zemra \u00ebsht\u00eb akoma primitive dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb universitetet ende nuk kan\u00eb arritur t\u00eb gjejn\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019i m\u00ebsuar zemr\u00ebs civilizimin, sepse kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb shpresa e vetme p\u00ebr mbijetes\u00ebn e njer\u00ebzimit.<\/p>

Braktiseni iden\u00eb e t\u00eb qenurit burr\u00eb apo grua! Ne jemi t\u00eb gjith\u00eb qenie njer\u00ebzore; t\u00eb qenit burr\u00eb apo grua \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb fakt shum\u00eb sip\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsor. Mjaft b\u00ebt\u00eb shum\u00eb zhurm\u00eb mbi k\u00ebt\u00eb tem\u00eb: nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb asgj\u00eb me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme, mos i jepni shum\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi \u00e7\u00ebshtjes! Ajo q\u00eb them ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb mund t\u00eb duket si nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsim, sepse nuk mund t’i konsideroj gjithmon\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha kushtet e mundshme, p\u00ebrndryshe fjalimet e mia duhet t\u00eb jen\u00eb plot me sh\u00ebnime!<\/p>

Un\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb flas p\u00ebr tipe dhe asnj\u00ebher\u00eb p\u00ebr llojet. Sa her\u00eb q\u00eb them “burr\u00eb” n\u00ebnkuptoj tipin mashkull dhe sa her\u00eb q\u00eb them “grua” i referohem tipit fem\u00ebr, por nuk mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrs\u00ebris “tipin mashkull” dhe “tipin fem\u00ebr” \u00e7do her\u00eb. Dhe ke t\u00eb drejt\u00eb t\u00eb kujtosh se ka gra q\u00eb nuk jan\u00eb gra, por “ujq\u00ebr”, pasi ka burra q\u00eb nuk jan\u00eb “ujq\u00ebr”, por “kotele”. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb un\u00eb them p\u00ebr llojin mashkull do t\u00eb vlej\u00eb edhe p\u00ebr grat\u00eb ujk, po ashtu dhe ato q\u00eb un\u00eb them p\u00ebr grat\u00eb do t\u00eb vlejn\u00eb edhe p\u00ebr burrat kotele.<\/p>

Nuk po ju referohem dallimeve biologjike midis burrit dhe gruas, por atyre psikologjike. V\u00ebrtet\u00eb, ka burra shum\u00eb m\u00eb fem\u00ebror sesa femrat dhe ka m\u00eb shum\u00eb gra m\u00eb mashkullore sesa burrat, por kjo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb situat\u00eb e mir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb; \u00ebsht\u00eb e tmerrshme sepse prodhon nj\u00eb dikotomi tek ju. N\u00ebse keni trupin e nj\u00eb burri dhe mendjen e nj\u00eb gruaje, brenda jush do t\u00eb zhvillohet nj\u00eb konflikt, nj\u00eb konflikt social, do t\u00eb zhvillohet nj\u00eb luft\u00eb civile dhe do ta gjeni veten duke jetuar n\u00eb nj\u00eb gjendje lufte t\u00eb armatosur, betejash dhe tensioni. N\u00ebse jeni nj\u00eb grua, por keni nj\u00eb mendje mashkull, do t\u00eb kaloni jet\u00ebn tuaj duke harxhuar shum\u00eb energji n\u00eb nj\u00eb konflikt t\u00eb panevojsh\u00ebm. \u00cbsht\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb jesh n\u00eb harmoni: t\u00eb jesh burr\u00eb ose grua si n\u00eb trup ashtu edhe n\u00eb mendje.<\/p>

L\u00ebvizja \u00c7lirimit t\u00eb Grave po krijon probleme t\u00eb panevojshme, duke i kthyer grat\u00eb n\u00eb ujq\u00ebr dhe duke i m\u00ebsuar ato t\u00eb luftojn\u00eb. Burri \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb armik dhe si mund ta doni armikun? Si mund t\u00eb hyni n\u00eb nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie intime me armikun? Burri nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb armiku juaj! P\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb grua, gruaja duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebhet gjithnj\u00eb e m\u00eb fem\u00ebrore, ajo duhet t\u00eb arrij\u00eb lart\u00ebsit\u00eb e delikates\u00ebs dhe prekshm\u00ebris\u00eb, ashtu si, p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb burr\u00eb, burri duhet t\u00eb vihet n\u00eb kontakt me energjin\u00eb e tij mashkullore m\u00eb t\u00eb thell\u00eb. Burri i v\u00ebrtet\u00eb dhe gruaja e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb q\u00eb ata takojn\u00eb jan\u00eb nj\u00eb pal\u00eb t\u00eb kund\u00ebrtash, ekstreme; vet\u00ebm k\u00ebto pole t\u00eb kund\u00ebrta mund t\u00eb bien n\u00eb dashuri dhe t\u00eb g\u00ebzojn\u00eb intimitet; vet\u00ebm ekstremitetet t\u00ebrheqin nj\u00ebri-tjetrin.<\/p>

Ajo q\u00eb po krijohet sot \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb lloj androgjeni: burrat po b\u00ebhen gjithnj\u00eb e m\u00eb fem\u00ebrore dhe grat\u00eb gjithnj\u00eb e m\u00eb mashkullore; her\u00ebt a von\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha dallimet do t\u00eb humbasin dhe do t\u00eb ket\u00eb nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri pa ngjyra dhe t\u00eb m\u00ebrzitshme. Do t\u00eb d\u00ebshiroja q\u00eb gruaja t\u00eb b\u00ebhej sa m\u00eb fem\u00ebrore, sepse vet\u00ebm at\u00ebher\u00eb ajo do t\u00eb jet\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb lul\u00ebzoj\u00eb dhe n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb ngjashme, burri duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebhet sa m\u00eb mashkullor, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb lul\u00ebzoj\u00eb. Kur burri dhe gruaja shnd\u00ebrrohen n\u00eb pole t\u00eb kund\u00ebrta, midis tyre lind nj\u00eb t\u00ebrheqje e madhe, nj\u00eb magnetiz\u00ebm i jasht\u00ebzakonsh\u00ebm dhe kur i afrohen nj\u00ebri-tjetrit, kur takohen n\u00eb intimitet, t\u00eb dy sjellin dy bot\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb takim, dy dimensione dhe dy pasuri t\u00eb ndryshme, duke e shnd\u00ebrruar at\u00eb moment, n\u00eb nj\u00eb lumturi t\u00eb jasht\u00ebzakonshme.<\/p>

Osho<\/strong><\/p>

Ej Grua, un\u00eb mund t\u00eb shoh at\u00eb q\u00eb ke kaluar
Nga shikimi n\u00eb syt\u00eb e tu dhe nga m\u00ebnyra sesi ec\u00ebn<\/p>

Ej Grua, pyes veten n\u00ebse e di v\u00ebrtet se \u00e7far\u00eb vlen
Pavar\u00ebsisht se \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb<\/p>

Pavar\u00ebsisht \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb dashur t\u00eb b\u00ebsh p\u00ebr t\u2019u dashur<\/p>

P\u00ebr shkak se ti e di, pa marr\u00eb parasysh sa je l\u00ebnduar,<\/p>

Asgj\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb shkat\u00ebrroj\u00eb zemr\u00ebn t\u00ebnde
Asgj\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb shkat\u00ebrroj\u00eb dashurin\u00eb t\u00ebnde<\/p>

Ato i p\u00ebrkasin nj\u00eb gruaje<\/p>

Vendosi duart mbi ijet e tua, hidhi nj\u00eb v\u00ebshtrim qiellit
Vall\u00eb nuk e di se \u00ebsht\u00eb i yti, i imi dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb hyjnor?
Ti je n\u00ebna e t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve dhe ti je f\u00ebmija gjithashtu
Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb misteri yt dhe i imi<\/p>

Ej Grua, pretendo qiellin …A mund ta d\u00ebgjosh thirrjen time?<\/p>

A mund t\u00eb m\u00eb d\u00ebgjosh? (Un\u00eb mund t\u00eb t\u00eb d\u00ebgjoj, d\u00ebgjoj …)
P\u00ebr shkak se un\u00eb jam duke k\u00ebnduar p\u00ebr ty, un\u00eb po k\u00ebndoj p\u00ebr ty
P\u00ebr shkak se un\u00eb mund t\u00eb ndjej at\u00eb q\u00eb ti ndjen<\/p>

Dhe n\u00ebse ti qan edhe un\u00eb do t\u00eb qaj, prandaj k\u00ebndo me mua sonte<\/p>

Marga Jee<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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