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Dhe p\u00ebr shkak se ata vuajn\u00eb dhe nuk e din\u00eb arsyen, ata fillojn\u00eb t\u00eb hakmerren ndaj nj\u00ebri-tjetrit. Gruaja mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb ndihm\u00eb e jasht\u00ebzakonshme n\u00eb krijimin e nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebrie organike. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb e ndryshme nga burri, por jo e pabarabart\u00eb. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb e barabart\u00eb me \u00e7do burr\u00eb. Ajo ka talentet e veta t\u00eb cilat jan\u00eb absolutisht t\u00eb nevojshme. Shum\u00eb e domosdoshme \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi e bukur dhe gruaja ka aft\u00ebsin\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb \u00e7do nd\u00ebrtes\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. Ajo mund ta mbush\u00eb at\u00eb me dashuri; ajo e ka at\u00eb ndjeshm\u00ebri. Ajo mund t\u00eb rinovoj\u00eb njeriun, ta ndihmoj\u00eb at\u00eb t\u00eb relaksohet.<\/p><p>N\u00eb Upanishads ka nj\u00eb bekim shum\u00eb t\u00eb \u00e7uditsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr \u00e7iftet e reja. Nj\u00eb \u00e7ift i ri shkon tek mjeshtri dhe ai jep bekimin e tij. Ai i thot\u00eb vajz\u00ebs n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb, &#8220;Un\u00eb shpresoj se do t\u00eb b\u00ebhesh n\u00ebn\u00eb e dhjet\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve dhe m\u00eb n\u00eb fund, burri juaj do t\u00eb jet\u00eb f\u00ebmija juaj i nj\u00ebmb\u00ebdhjet\u00eb. Dhe n\u00ebse nuk b\u00ebheni n\u00ebn\u00eb e burrit tuaj, nuk keni arritur t\u00eb jeni nj\u00eb grua e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb.&#8221; \u00cbsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e \u00e7uditshme, por ka nj\u00eb dep\u00ebrtim t\u00eb jasht\u00ebzakonsh\u00ebm psikologjik n\u00eb t\u00eb, sepse kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb ka gjetur psikologjia moderne sot, q\u00eb \u00e7do burr\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb duke k\u00ebrkuar n\u00ebn\u00ebn e tij tek gruaja, dhe \u00e7do grua \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebrkim t\u00eb babait t\u00eb saj te burri.<\/p><p>Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb arsyeja pse shum\u00eb martesa jan\u00eb nj\u00eb d\u00ebshtim: ju nuk mund ta gjeni n\u00ebn\u00ebn tuaj. Gruaja me t\u00eb cil\u00ebn jeni martuar nuk ka ardhur n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb tuaj p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb n\u00ebna juaj, ajo d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb jet\u00eb gruaja juaj, e dashura juaj. Por bekimi i Upanishadave, gati pes\u00eb mij\u00eb vjet m\u00eb par\u00eb, jep nj\u00eb pasqyr\u00eb t\u00eb psikologjis\u00eb moderne. Nj\u00eb grua, sido q\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb, n\u00eb thelb \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb. Babai \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb institucion i shpikur, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i natyrsh\u00ebm\u2026 Por n\u00ebna do t\u00eb mbetet e domosdoshme. Shkenc\u00ebtar\u00ebt kan\u00eb zbuluar se trupi i n\u00ebn\u00ebs dhe ngroht\u00ebsia e saj \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb domosdoshm\u00ebri absolute q\u00eb t\u00eb rritet jeta. Ajo ngroht\u00ebsi n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb univers t\u00eb gjer\u00eb t\u00eb ftoht\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb absolutisht e nevojshme q\u00eb n\u00eb fillim, p\u00ebrndryshe f\u00ebmija do t\u00eb ndjehet i braktisur. Ai do t\u00eb tkurret dhe do t\u00eb vdes\u00eb psikologjikisht.<\/p><p>Ju i merrni burrin dhe gruan si dy specie. Ata i p\u00ebrkasin nj\u00eb njer\u00ebzimi dhe t\u00eb dy kan\u00eb cil\u00ebsi plot\u00ebsuese. Ata t\u00eb dy kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00ebri-tjetrin dhe vet\u00ebm kur jan\u00eb bashk\u00eb jan\u00eb nj\u00eb e t\u00ebr\u00eb e kompletuar\u2026 Jeta duhet t\u00eb merret me leht\u00ebsi. Dallimet nuk jan\u00eb kontradikta. Ata mund t\u00eb ndihmojn\u00eb nj\u00ebri-tjetrin dhe t\u00eb p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsojn\u00eb jasht\u00ebzakonisht nj\u00ebri-tjetrin. Gruaja q\u00eb ju do, mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsoj\u00eb krijimtarin\u00eb tuaj, mund t&#8217;ju frym\u00ebzoj\u00eb n\u00eb lart\u00ebsit\u00eb q\u00eb nuk keni \u00ebnd\u00ebrruar kurr\u00eb. Dhe ajo nuk k\u00ebrkon asgj\u00eb. Ajo thjesht d\u00ebshiron dashurin\u00eb tuaj, e cila \u00ebsht\u00eb e drejta e saj themelore.<\/p><p><strong>\u00c7far\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p><p>Grat\u00eb jan\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebrkim t\u00eb nj\u00eb burri q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb i \u00e7mendur dhe i eg\u00ebr. Sepse i \u00e7menduri \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00ebrheq\u00ebs: i \u00e7menduri, eg\u00ebrsia, ka nj\u00eb magnetiz\u00ebm t\u00eb caktuar. Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb plot mund\u00ebsi, \u00ebndrra. Grat\u00eb e duan nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrrimtar. Dhe burrat? Burrat e duan nj\u00eb grua normale &#8211; p\u00ebrndryshe, do t\u00eb \u00e7mendeshin fare.<\/p><p><em>Gruaja p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson tok\u00ebn. Nj\u00eb burr\u00eb ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb grua sepse ai nuk ka rr\u00ebnj\u00eb n\u00eb qenien e vet. Ai ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb grua, tok\u00ebn e ngroht\u00eb, tok\u00ebn e err\u00ebt, ku ai t\u00eb ket\u00eb rr\u00ebnj\u00ebt e tij dhe t\u00eb mbetet i rr\u00ebnjosur. Ai ka frik\u00eb &#8211; ai ka krah\u00eb por nuk ka rr\u00ebnj\u00eb. Dhe ai ka frik\u00eb se n\u00ebse nuk lidhet me tok\u00ebn, ai mund t\u00eb hmb\u00eb, ai mund t\u00eb zhduket n\u00eb qiellin e pafund dhe nuk mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb m\u00eb kthim. Kjo frik\u00eb i b\u00ebn burrat t\u00eb vrapojn\u00eb pas grave.<\/em><\/p><p>Dhe nj\u00eb grua nuk ka krah\u00eb. Ajo ka rr\u00ebnj\u00eb, rr\u00ebnj\u00eb t\u00eb shk\u00eblqyera; nj\u00eb grua \u00ebsht\u00eb tok\u00eb e past\u00ebr. Dhe ajo ka frik\u00eb po ashtu, sepse n\u00ebse mbetet vet\u00ebm, ajo kurr\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb jet\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb fluturoj\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb panjohurat e bot\u00ebs. Nj\u00eb grua nuk mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrrimtare si nj\u00eb burr\u00eb. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht rast\u00ebsi q\u00eb grat\u00eb nuk kan\u00eb krijuar poezi apo muzik\u00eb t\u00eb niveleve t\u00eb larta. Ato nuk kan\u00eb krah\u00eb, jan\u00eb shum\u00eb tok\u00ebsore, shum\u00eb pragmatike, shum\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrteta &#8211; dhe normale, natyrisht. Ato jan\u00eb kaq n\u00eb rregull, saq\u00eb kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb arsyeja pse ato nuk shkruajn\u00eb poezi. Duhet t\u00eb kesh iluzione p\u00ebr t\u00eb shkruar poezi. Duhet t\u00eb kesh disa \u00e7menduri, megalomani, vet\u00ebm at\u00ebher\u00eb mund t\u00eb shkruash poezi.<\/p><p>Nj\u00eb grua b\u00ebn nj\u00eb list\u00eb pun\u00ebsh, jo nj\u00eb poezi &#8211; nj\u00eb list\u00eb pazari etj. Shqet\u00ebsimi i saj \u00ebsht\u00eb i menj\u00ebhersh\u00ebm. Ajo flet p\u00ebr fqinj\u00ebt; ajo nuk shqet\u00ebsohet p\u00ebr Vietnamin apo Izraelin. Ajo thjesht qesh me burrat &#8211; pse shqet\u00ebsohen kaq shum\u00eb? Dhe ata entuziazmohen shum\u00eb n\u00ebse di\u00e7ka po ndodh n\u00eb Lindjen e Mesme. Grat\u00eb nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb interesuara p\u00ebr ungjijt\u00eb, ata jan\u00eb t\u00eb interesuara p\u00ebr thashethemet. T\u00eb dy fjal\u00ebt vijn\u00eb nga e nj\u00ebjta rr\u00ebnj\u00eb. Kur b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr larg, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb ungjill, kur b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr af\u00ebrsi \u00ebsht\u00eb thashethem. Kur \u00ebsht\u00eb i menj\u00ebhersh\u00ebm \u00ebsht\u00eb thashethem, kur \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrfundimtar \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb ungjill. Burri nuk mund t\u00eb jetoj\u00eb pa gruan, sepse at\u00ebher\u00eb ai humbet rr\u00ebnj\u00ebt.<\/p><p>Ai thjesht b\u00ebhet nj\u00eb vagabond. At\u00ebher\u00eb ai nuk i p\u00ebrket asgj\u00ebje, Shikojeni nj\u00eb burr\u00eb q\u00eb nuk ka grua: ai nuk i p\u00ebrket askund, ai nuk ka sht\u00ebpi, ai b\u00ebhet nj\u00eb sh\u00ebtit\u00ebs, dallg\u00ebt e marrin at\u00eb kudo &#8211; dhe n\u00ebse p\u00ebrzihet me nj\u00eb grua diku; at\u00ebher\u00eb lind sht\u00ebpia. Studiuesit thon\u00eb se sht\u00ebpia \u00ebsht\u00eb krijimi i gruas. N\u00ebse burri do t\u00eb kishte jetuar vet\u00ebm, nuk do t\u00eb kishte as sht\u00ebpi dhe as civilizim. Ai do t\u00eb ishte nj\u00eb endacak, gjahtar; ai do t\u00eb kishte shkuar nga nj\u00eb cep n\u00eb cepin tjet\u00ebr. Burri sot po mundohet t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb n\u00eb planet\u00ebt e tjer\u00eb; askush nuk ka arritur n\u00eb H\u00ebn\u00eb akoma. Dhe grat\u00eb thjesht qeshin me t\u00ebr\u00eb marr\u00ebzin\u00eb e burrit. Meshkujt duhet t\u00eb jen\u00eb h\u00ebnor, ata jan\u00eb kaq shum\u00eb t\u00eb interesuar p\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur H\u00ebn\u00ebn, Marsin. P\u00ebr \u00e7far\u00eb? Ju nuk mund t\u00eb b\u00ebni pazar atje. Duket se nuk ka asnj\u00eb pik\u00eb kuptimi p\u00ebr grat\u00eb! Dhe atje nuk ka njer\u00ebz, nuk ka thashetheme, asgj\u00eb &#8211; thjesht shkret\u00ebtir\u00eb e zbraz\u00ebt.<\/p><p>Burri pa gruan \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb endacak, nj\u00eb vagabond. Prandaj, her\u00ebt a von\u00eb, ai duhet t\u00eb rr\u00ebnjoset. Gruaja b\u00ebhet toka e tij. N\u00eb qoft\u00eb se nj\u00eb burr\u00eb nuk gjen di\u00e7ka n\u00eb t\u00eb q\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebhet toka e tij, n\u00ebse burri nuk e gjen gruan e tij t\u00eb brendshme, ai do t\u00eb duhet t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb gruan e jashtme. Po, ka pasur burra q\u00eb kan\u00eb jetuar pa gra &#8211; nj\u00eb Buda apo nj\u00eb Jezus. Por edhe ata nuk kan\u00eb jetuar me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb pa nj\u00eb grua &#8211; ata gjet\u00ebn fem\u00ebroren n\u00eb thell\u00ebsi n\u00eb qenien e tyre. Sepse burri \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe burr\u00eb dhe grua dhe gruaja \u00ebsht\u00eb gjithashtu grua dhe burr\u00eb. Duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb k\u00ebshtu, sepse ju vini nga dy persona &#8211; babai dhe n\u00ebna juaj. Babai juaj ka kontribuar me burrin brenda jush, n\u00ebna juaj ka kontribuar me gruan tek ju. \u00c7do person \u00ebsht\u00eb pes\u00ebdhjet\u00eb p\u00ebrqind burr\u00eb, pes\u00ebdhjet\u00eb p\u00ebrqind grua. N\u00eb qoft\u00eb se nuk futeni brenda vetes dhe nuk gjeni gruan ose burrin tuaj atje, do t\u00eb duhet t\u00eb shikoni jasht\u00eb, e jashtmja \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb z\u00ebvend\u00ebsim.<\/p><p><strong>Var\u00ebsia nga nj\u00ebri-tjetri<\/strong><\/p><p>Pa grua nj\u00eb burr\u00eb do t\u00eb \u00e7mendet. Dhe e nj\u00ebjta gj\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb edhe p\u00ebr grat\u00eb &#8211; pa burra ato do t\u00eb jen\u00eb shum\u00eb normale nga trut\u00eb dhe t\u00eb jesh shum\u00eb normal \u00ebsht\u00eb gjithashtu nj\u00eb lloj \u00e7mendurie tjet\u00ebr. T\u00eb jesh shum\u00eb i sh\u00ebndetsh\u00ebm b\u00ebhet e r\u00ebnd\u00eb; t\u00eb jesh shum\u00eb i sh\u00ebndetsh\u00ebm, at\u00ebher\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb k\u00ebndosh, nuk mund t\u00eb k\u00ebrcesh, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb nj\u00eb grua ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr dik\u00eb q\u00eb mund t\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrroj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb. <em>Nj\u00eb burr\u00eb ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr dik\u00eb q\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebhet sht\u00ebpi p\u00ebr t\u00eb.<\/em><\/p><p>Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb domosdoshm\u00ebri &#8211; n\u00ebse nuk arrini t\u00eb gjeni polaritetin tuaj tjet\u00ebr brenda vetes. Kjo domosdoshm\u00ebri b\u00ebn q\u00eb, natyrisht t\u00eb ndjehesh i pafuqish\u00ebm para gruas ose para burrit. At\u00ebher\u00eb gruaja apo burri \u00ebsht\u00eb nevoja jote, at\u00ebher\u00eb je i varur. Dhe ju filloni acaroheni sepse pavar\u00ebsia juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb e humbur. Ju m\u00ebrziteni sepse ajo ka aq shum\u00eb fuqi mbi ty. Ju nuk mund ta falni at\u00eb. Dhe gruaja nuk mund t\u00eb t\u00eb fal\u00eb as ty, sepse pa ty ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht tok\u00eb. Qielli zhduket, yjet zhduken. Pa ty ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm tok\u00eb &#8211; e err\u00ebt, duke pritur p\u00ebr dik\u00eb. Duke pritur q\u00eb dikush t\u00eb vij\u00eb dhe t\u00eb lul\u00ebzoj\u00eb n\u00eb qenien e saj, duke pritur q\u00eb dikush ta l\u00ebshoj\u00eb arom\u00ebn e saj n\u00eb lart\u00ebsi.<\/p><p>A keni par\u00eb nj\u00eb grua pa dashuri dhe nj\u00eb t\u00eb dashuruar? Ato jan\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshme; aroma e tyre \u00ebsht\u00eb e ndryshme. Kur nj\u00eb grua \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm ajo ka trishtim rreth e rrotull: depresion, e vetmuar, n\u00eb d\u00ebshp\u00ebrim, vet\u00ebm n\u00eb ankth. N\u00eb momentin q\u00eb bie n\u00eb dashuri ajo fillon t\u00eb lul\u00ebzoj\u00eb. Di\u00e7ka hapet menj\u00ebher\u00eb. At\u00ebher\u00eb ajo ka bukuri. Nj\u00eb grua jo e dashuruar zvog\u00eblohet, mbyllet. Ajo mbyll dyert dhe dritaret. Nuk ka njeri q\u00eb t\u00eb pres\u00eb &#8211; pse t&#8217;i mbash dritaret t\u00eb hapura? Ajo fillon t\u00eb jetoj\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb lloj varri; ajo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e gjall\u00eb. Ajo fillon t\u00eb vdes\u00eb, ajo b\u00ebhet vet\u00ebvras\u00ebse. Vet\u00ebm mendjempreht\u00ebsia, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e mjaftueshme. Disa poezi jan\u00eb t\u00eb nevojshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbajtur ekuilibrin.<\/p><p>Dhe njeriu vet\u00ebm duket i humbur; ai nuk e di kush \u00ebsht\u00eb. N\u00eb qoft\u00eb se nuk e sheh veten n\u00eb syt\u00eb e nj\u00eb gruaje t\u00eb dashur, ai kurr\u00eb nuk do ta dij\u00eb se kush \u00ebsht\u00eb. Ai mund t\u00eb vazhdoj\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekje p\u00ebr ndri\u00e7im dhe t\u00eb vazhdoj\u00eb t\u00eb pyes\u00eb &#8220;Kush jam un\u00eb? Kush jam un\u00eb?&#8221; Dhe asnj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje nuk do t\u00eb vij\u00eb &#8211; n\u00ebse ai nuk shikon n\u00eb syt\u00eb e dashuris\u00eb. Vet\u00ebm at\u00ebher\u00eb ai do t\u00eb pasqyrohet, vet\u00ebm at\u00ebher\u00eb n\u00eb pasqyr\u00eb do ta shoh\u00eb kush \u00ebsht\u00eb. Gruaja i jep form\u00eb, substanc\u00eb burrit, Gruaja e b\u00ebn t\u00eb vet\u00ebdijsh\u00ebm se kush \u00ebsht\u00eb. Me dashurin\u00eb e saj ajo krijon burrin. Ju, jo vet\u00ebm q\u00eb jeni krijuar nga n\u00ebna juaj n\u00eb barkun e saj, por ju jeni krijuar nga secila grua sa her\u00eb q\u00eb dashuroheni. Kurdoher\u00eb q\u00eb bini n\u00eb dashuri gruaja ju jep form\u00eb, ngjyr\u00eb, ajo ju b\u00ebn njer\u00ebzor. P\u00ebrndryshe, burri do t\u00eb ishte shum\u00eb barbar, i dhunsh\u00ebm, agresiv, i paqart\u00eb. Por problemi \u00ebsht\u00eb se t\u00eb dy varen nga nj\u00ebri-tjetri dhe t\u00eb dy ndjehen t\u00eb l\u00ebnduar nga kjo gj\u00eb &#8211; pasi askush nuk d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb varet.<\/p><p>Dhe kurdo q\u00eb do t\u00eb varesh nga dikush, nuk do t\u00eb mund ta fal\u00ebsh. Do t\u00eb hakmerresh, Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb arsyeja pse t\u00eb dashuruarit vazhdojn\u00eb t\u00eb luftojn\u00eb me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin. Lufta nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb gj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr ve\u00e7se ti q\u00eb do t\u00eb tregosh se &#8220;Un\u00eb jam akoma i pavarur&#8221; Lufta \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndjer\u00eb se &#8220;Un\u00eb jam akoma i pavarur. N\u00ebse dua mund t\u00eb largohem prej saj&#8221;. Po ashtu lufta \u00ebsht\u00eb sepse gruaja mendon, &#8220;Un\u00eb nuk jam aq e varur prej tij. Un\u00eb ende mund t\u00eb lul\u00ebzoj vet\u00ebm. Un\u00eb do t\u00eb vazhdoj t\u00eb jem e lumtur pa ty&#8221; Prandaj ata luftojn\u00eb, vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb provuar pavar\u00ebsin\u00eb e tyre. Por brenda pak or\u00ebsh lufta mbaron dhe ata jan\u00eb duke p\u00ebrqafuar nj\u00ebri-tjetrin. Sepse n\u00eb momentin kur fillojn\u00eb t\u00eb ndahen nga nj\u00ebri-tjetri, ata fillojn\u00eb t\u00eb ndjehen t\u00eb mbytur, t\u00eb uritur, t\u00eb etur. Ata fillojn\u00eb t\u00eb humbasin \u00e7far\u00ebdo q\u00eb kishin.<\/p><p>Nxeht\u00ebsia humbet, njeriu fillon t\u00eb ndjehet i ftoht\u00eb. Dhe n\u00ebse nuk ka njeri q\u00eb ta mbaj\u00eb gruan, ajo fillon t\u00eb ndjehet absolutisht e vetmuar. N\u00ebse nuk ka dashuri, t\u00eb gjith\u00eb jemi vet\u00ebm. N\u00ebse dashuria nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e mundur, at\u00ebher\u00eb vetmia \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrteta dhe duhet pranuar. \u00c7do burr\u00eb lejon fuqin\u00eb e grave mbi t\u00eb. E megjithat\u00eb ai i reziston asaj. Kur pema merr kaq shum\u00eb ushqim nga toka, ajo b\u00ebhet e varur; nuk mund t\u00eb mbetet e pavarur. Dhe e anasjella \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb fenomen i thjesht\u00eb. Kur toka sheh g\u00ebzimin e vet, potencialin e saj duke u shprehur nga pema &#8211; gjethet e gjelbra dhe lulet e kuqe dhe deg\u00ebt e ngritura lart n\u00eb qiell &#8211; q\u00eb toka d\u00ebshironte gjithmon\u00eb, t\u00eb kishte krah\u00eb dhe tani ata jan\u00eb atje &#8211; si mund t\u00eb mbetet toka e pavarur?<\/p><p>Burr\u00eb e grua ekzistojn\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb lloj nd\u00ebrvar\u00ebsie, t\u00eb Pavarur, ata jan\u00eb t\u00eb uritur p\u00ebr tjetrin. Nd\u00ebrvar\u00ebsia \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrteta &#8211; por at\u00ebher\u00eb pavar\u00ebsia humbet. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb rast\u00ebsi q\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb murgjit e bot\u00ebs, n\u00eb shekuj, kan\u00eb ikur larg nga gruaja. Gruaja p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson bot\u00ebn. Ata duan t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb pavarur. Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb fenomen njer\u00ebzor, aspak personal. Gruaja nuk mund t\u00eb ndjehet e lumtur pa nj\u00eb burr\u00eb. Pa nj\u00eb burr\u00eb ajo nuk mund t\u00eb rrjedh\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebndrra. Nj\u00eb njeri me iluzione \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00ebrheq\u00ebs se nj\u00eb njeri i zakonsh\u00ebm. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb arsyeja pse grat\u00eb bien n\u00eb dashuri me njer\u00ebz q\u00eb kan\u00eb iluzione t\u00eb m\u00ebdha p\u00ebr veten e tyre. Nj\u00eb njeri i zakonsh\u00ebm \u00ebsht\u00eb ai q\u00eb nuk ka iluzione; asnj\u00eb grua nuk t\u00ebrhiqet prej nj\u00eb burri t\u00eb zakonsh\u00ebm.<\/p><p>Nj\u00eb njeri me iluzione duket magjik. Ai ka magji, syt\u00eb e tij ndizen me di\u00e7ka t\u00eb panjohur, dhe kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb d\u00ebshira e gruas. Ai ka ndjenj\u00ebn e mund\u00ebsis\u00eb &#8211; ajo ndjenj\u00eb e mund\u00ebsis\u00eb i jep atij cil\u00ebsin\u00eb e magjis\u00eb. N\u00eb natyr\u00eb: zogu me vall\u00ebzimin m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe k\u00ebng\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb merr femr\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb. Dhe k\u00ebshtu \u00ebsht\u00eb rasti edhe me qeniet njer\u00ebzore. V\u00ebzhgoni ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb se sa gra t\u00eb bukura varen rreth muzikant\u00ebve, k\u00ebng\u00ebtar\u00ebve dhe aktor\u00ebve? Ato menj\u00ebher\u00eb b\u00ebhen t\u00eb t\u00ebrhequra.<\/p><p><strong>Si t\u00eb dalim nga kjo vorbull<\/strong><\/p><p>Do t\u00eb duhet t\u00eb futesh brenda. Ju nuk mund t\u00eb dilni kaq leht\u00eb &#8211; gjith\u00e7ka ka nj\u00eb \u00e7mim. Hyni sa m\u00eb thell\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb e mundur. N\u00ebse dilni jasht\u00eb dhe nuk jeni aq t\u00eb pjekur sa t\u00eb dilni, do t\u00eb duhet t\u00eb futeni p\u00ebrs\u00ebri. Kaloni t\u00ebr\u00eb pjes\u00ebn, shkoni deri n\u00eb fund t\u00eb saj. Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb vazhdo t\u00eb meditosh dhe t\u00eb shoh\u00ebsh fenomenin. Mos e merrni personalisht, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb personale, n\u00ebse e merrni personalisht, i keqkuptoni gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb nga fillimi. \u00cbsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka midis burrit dhe gruas, asgj\u00eb midis jush dhe gruas suaj. \u00cbsht\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka midis energjis\u00eb mashkullore dhe energjis\u00eb fem\u00ebrore.<\/p><p>Vet\u00ebm shikojeni si nj\u00eb v\u00ebzhgues i shk\u00ebputur. Mos i fusni egot tuaja t\u00eb vogla &#8211; ato jan\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme. Ato krijojn\u00eb rr\u00ebmuj\u00eb, ato nuk ndihmojn\u00eb, nuk japin mir\u00ebkuptim. Vet\u00ebm shikoni se \u00e7far\u00eb po ndodh me energjit\u00eb tuaja. Dhe, ngadal\u00eb ngadal\u00eb, q\u00eb vet\u00eb meditimi do t&#8217;ju ndihmoj\u00eb t\u00eb mund t\u00eb gjeni nj\u00eb grua brenda jush &#8211; ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb atje. N\u00ebse jeni burr\u00eb, at\u00ebher\u00eb i vet\u00ebdijshmi juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb mashkullor, pavet\u00ebdija juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb fem\u00ebrore. N\u00ebse jeni grua, at\u00ebher\u00eb i vet\u00ebdijshmi juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb fem\u00ebror, pavet\u00ebdija juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb mashkullore. Thjesht zhyteni thell\u00eb n\u00eb pavet\u00ebdijen tuaj.<\/p><p>Vazhdoni t\u00eb doni, vazhdoni t\u00eb provoni g\u00ebzimet dhe mjerimet q\u00eb sjell dashuria. T\u00eb gjitha jan\u00eb t\u00eb nevojshme p\u00ebr t&#8217;ju b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb matur dhe t\u00eb pjekur. Dhe nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb vazhdo t\u00eb meditosh. T\u00eb dyja k\u00ebto procese, dashuria dhe meditimi, n\u00ebse vazhdojn\u00eb nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht, ngadal\u00eb ngadal\u00eb do t&#8217;ju b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb vet\u00ebdijsh\u00ebm. Dhe kur ndodh, at\u00ebher\u00eb takimi juaj i pavet\u00ebdijes dhe i vet\u00ebdijes, \u00e7on n\u00eb nj\u00eb ndryshim, nj\u00eb ndryshim i p\u00ebrgjithsh\u00ebm; cil\u00ebsia juaj nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e nj\u00ebjt\u00eb. At\u00ebher\u00eb akoma mund t\u00eb doni nj\u00eb grua, por nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb nj\u00eb var\u00ebsi. Akoma mund ta duash nj\u00eb njeri, por \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht nj\u00eb g\u00ebzim i past\u00ebr, \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht energji e tejmbushur. Ju keni aq shum\u00eb sa duhet t&#8217;i jepni dikujt.<\/p><p>At\u00ebher\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb luftoni me gruan ose burrin tuaj, sepse at\u00ebher\u00eb nuk ka asnj\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje t\u00eb luft\u00ebs. At\u00ebher\u00eb ju jeni dy njer\u00ebz t\u00eb pavarur q\u00eb ndani pavar\u00ebsin\u00eb tuaj, duke i dh\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00ebri-tjetrit nga liria juaj e pamas\u00eb. At\u00ebher\u00eb nuk ndjeheni t\u00eb l\u00ebnduar, at\u00ebher\u00eb nuk mendoni se jeni b\u00ebr\u00eb skllav. At\u00ebher\u00eb ju mbeteni mjesht\u00ebr dhe ajo mbetet mjesht\u00ebr. Dhe askush nuk posedon ask\u00ebnd. 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