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Ushqeni intelektin dhe meditimin tek f\u00ebmij\u00ebt; jepini rr\u00ebnj\u00eb dhe jepini hap\u00ebsirat e gjera t\u00eb qiellit. Dhe mos harroni se ekuilibri midis t\u00eb dyjave \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb i r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm; nuk duhet t\u00eb ket\u00eb jop\u00ebrpjes\u00ebtim mes tyre. Vet\u00ebm n\u00ebse mund ta b\u00ebni k\u00ebt\u00eb, keni p\u00ebrmbushur angazhimin tuaj prind\u00ebror n\u00eb kuptimin e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb; vet\u00ebm at\u00ebher\u00eb i keni dh\u00ebn\u00eb jet\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs n\u00eb kuptimin e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. P\u00ebrndryshe, ju i jepni f\u00ebmij\u00ebs trupin e tij, por shpirti i tij nuk merr asnj\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetje nga ju. Lindja e trupit \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje shum\u00eb e zakonshme. Zogjt\u00eb dhe kafsh\u00ebt t\u00eb gjith\u00eb e menaxhojn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb pa shum\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi – n\u00eb t\u00eb nuk ka asgj\u00eb t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb ndonj\u00eb arritje e madhe e juaja kjo gj\u00eb.<\/p>

Dhe nj\u00eb pik\u00eb tjet\u00ebr p\u00ebr tu kujtuar \u00ebsht\u00eb se duke sjell\u00eb drit\u00eb n\u00eb shpirtin e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs suaj, ju i jepni drit\u00eb vetes tuaj. Nuk mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb ndryshe. N\u00ebse e doni f\u00ebmij\u00ebn tuaj, d\u00ebrgojeni at\u00eb n\u00eb udh\u00ebtimin drejt intelektit dhe jepini rr\u00ebnj\u00eb n\u00eb meditim. Papritmas do t\u00eb zbuloni se gjat\u00eb formimit t\u00eb tij, ju vet\u00eb po merrni form\u00eb. Kur nj\u00eb skulptor b\u00ebn p\u00ebrpjekje p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsuar nj\u00eb skulptur\u00eb, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm skulptura q\u00eb b\u00ebhet m\u00eb e bukur; n\u00eb pro\u00e7es skulptori gjithashtu vazhdon t\u00eb b\u00ebhet m\u00eb i bukur. \u00cbsht\u00eb e pamundur t\u2019i jap\u00ebsh jet\u00eb bukuris\u00eb pa u b\u00ebr\u00eb m\u00eb i bukur edhe vet\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb e pamundur t\u2019i jap\u00ebsh ekuilib\u00ebr dikujt pa u ekuilibruar edhe vet\u00eb. N\u00ebse jeni v\u00ebrtet baba, at\u00ebher\u00eb lindja e nj\u00eb djali n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb tuaj do t\u00eb transformoj\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb jet\u00ebn tuaj, sepse kur t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqeni ta formoni djalin tuaj si m\u00eb t\u00eb bukur, t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetsh\u00ebm dhe paq\u00ebsor, edhe ju vet\u00eb do b\u00ebheni i till\u00eb.

N\u00eb fakt juve do t\u2019ju duhet t\u00eb krijoni m\u00eb par\u00eb n\u00eb veten tuaj, gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb d\u00ebshironi t\u00eb krijoni n\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebn tuaj. Nj\u00eb burri dhe nj\u00eb grua mund t\u00eb shijojn\u00eb loj\u00ebn e tyre t\u00eb pakujdesshme me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin kur ata nuk kan\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb, por me lindjen e nj\u00eb f\u00ebmije nj\u00eb lidhje e re \u00ebsht\u00eb shtuar n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tyre dhe tani t\u00eb luajn\u00eb vet\u00ebm nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e mjaftueshme. Tani ka nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi t\u00eb thell\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tyre dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi interesante sepse \u00ebsht\u00eb plot dashuri. Ky f\u00ebmij\u00eb do t\u00eb filloj\u00eb t\u00eb transformoj\u00eb si n\u00ebn\u00ebn, ashtu edhe baban\u00eb e tij. N\u00ebse v\u00ebrtet e doni f\u00ebmij\u00ebn tuaj, ju do t\u00eb transformoheni. N\u00ebse nuk e doni at\u00eb, do t\u00eb vazhdoni t\u00eb b\u00ebrtisni dhe ankoheni se f\u00ebmija po shkat\u00ebrrohet, shoq\u00ebria p\u00ebrreth \u00ebsht\u00eb e keqe, gjith\u00e7ka po shkon keq. Nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb nuk prishet kurr\u00eb p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb shoq\u00ebris\u00eb, ai prishet p\u00ebr shkakun tuaj – dhe ju jeni shoq\u00ebria. Ironia \u00ebsht\u00eb se ajo q\u00eb ju e quani shoq\u00ebri \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht popullata e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve. Babai mbetet ashtu si\u00e7 ishte p\u00ebrpara se t\u00eb lindte f\u00ebmija; edhe n\u00ebna mbetet e nj\u00ebjt\u00eb. N\u00eb nj\u00eb far\u00eb m\u00ebnyre f\u00ebmija ka lindur p\u00ebr ju, por n\u00eb zem\u00ebr ju mungon dashuria p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb. Dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb dashuria juaj q\u00eb mund t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb!<\/p>

I mbani mend prind\u00ebrit tuaj? A ishin ata t\u00eb interesuar q\u00eb t\u2019ju dhuronin dashurin\u00eb e tyre, pa kushte? Apo ishin t\u00eb interesuar t\u00eb p\u00ebrdornin dashurin\u00eb e tyre p\u00ebr t\u00eb kontaminuar mendjen tuaj me idet\u00eb e tyre, me ideologjin\u00eb e tyre politike, me komb\u00ebsin\u00eb e tyre? P\u00ebrndryshe, si ka mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb njer\u00ebzimi t\u00eb ndahet kaq shum\u00eb? Kush \u00ebsht\u00eb krimineli q\u00eb q\u00ebndron pas tij? Pse duhet t\u00eb ket\u00eb kaq shum\u00eb kombe? Pse duhet t\u00eb ket\u00eb kaq shum\u00eb fe? Njer\u00ebzimi \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb. E v\u00ebrteta \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb. Por njer\u00ebzve nuk u \u00ebsht\u00eb lejuar t\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb vet\u00eb fytyr\u00ebn e tyre origjinale. Atyre u jepen maska dhe e jetojn\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tyre duke besuar se kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb fytyra e tyre origjinale. Pra, ushqeni meditimin tek f\u00ebmija juaj nd\u00ebrsa ushqeni intelektin e tij, dhe gjithashtu ushqeni nj\u00eb ekuilib\u00ebr midis t\u00eb dyjave. Duke vepruar k\u00ebshtu do t\u00eb zbuloni se edhe ju jeni transformuar pa e ditur k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb. Para se vet\u00eb drita e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs suaj t\u00eb shk\u00eblqej\u00eb plot\u00ebsisht, ju vet\u00eb do t\u00eb shk\u00eblqeni. Papritur do t\u00eb zbuloni se n\u00eb procesin e b\u00ebrjes s\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs tuaj,ju keni b\u00ebr\u00eb veten tuaj.<\/p>

Dhe n\u00ebse f\u00ebmija prishet, kjo do t\u00eb thot\u00eb vet\u00ebm se ju vet\u00eb jeni t\u00eb prishur dhe se dashuria juaj p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebn nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb aq e madhe sa t\u00eb jeni t\u00eb p\u00ebrgatitur t\u00eb ndryshoni veten p\u00ebr hir t\u00eb tij. K\u00ebshtu q\u00eb ndodh nj\u00eb gj\u00eb shum\u00eb interesante: babai vazhdon t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtat gj\u00ebra q\u00eb nuk d\u00ebshiron q\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tij t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb; n\u00ebna vazhdon t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtat gj\u00ebra q\u00eb nuk d\u00ebshiron q\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e saj t\u2019i b\u00ebjn\u00eb. Por f\u00ebmij\u00ebt nuk m\u00ebsojn\u00eb nga predikimet tuaja, ata m\u00ebsojn\u00eb nga ju. Dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt kan\u00eb sy shum\u00eb t\u00eb mpreht\u00eb dhe t\u00eb qart\u00eb; syt\u00eb e tyre nuk jan\u00eb lyer ende me pluhurin e jet\u00ebs. Ata mund t\u00eb shohin edhe p\u00ebrmes fjal\u00ebve tuaja, ata nuk kapen pas tyre, ata nuk u interesojn\u00eb ato q\u00eb thoni. Ata ju shikojn\u00eb dhe ju njohin. Kuptimi i tyre \u00ebsht\u00eb i drejtp\u00ebrdrejt\u00eb. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb arsyeja pse \u00ebsht\u00eb kaq e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u2019i thuash g\u00ebnjeshtra f\u00ebmij\u00ebve – sepse kur thua nj\u00eb g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebr nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht ajo q\u00eb p\u00ebrcillet vet\u00ebm nga fjal\u00ebt; nd\u00ebrsa po thoni nj\u00eb g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebr, e gjith\u00eb fytyra deklaron falsitetin tuaj. Syt\u00eb e tu thon\u00eb “g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebr”; dora juaj e cila po prek f\u00ebmij\u00ebn thot\u00eb “g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebr”. Dhe f\u00ebmija \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb af\u00ebr jet\u00ebs; t\u00eb rriturit mund t\u00eb mos e perceptojn\u00eb at\u00eb, por f\u00ebmija menj\u00ebher\u00eb e di se ju po thoni nj\u00eb g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebr. K\u00ebshtu q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb mashtrosh f\u00ebmij\u00ebt n\u00ebse nuk i keni korruptuar ata.<\/p>

Ne b\u00ebjm\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb mundemi p\u00ebr t\u00eb korruptuar f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb, sepse derisa t\u00eb korruptohen, jetojm\u00eb n\u00eb dyshim, duke pasur frik\u00eb prej tyre. Si prind\u00ebr ne i m\u00ebsojm\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb t\u00eb mos thon\u00eb g\u00ebnjeshtra, por gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb koh\u00ebs ata na shohin duke th\u00ebn\u00eb g\u00ebnjeshtra. At\u00ebher\u00eb, \u00e7far\u00eb m\u00ebsojn\u00eb ata nga kjo? Vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb gj\u00eb – q\u00eb ju duhet t’i m\u00ebsoni f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tuaj t\u00eb mos jen\u00eb t\u00eb rrem\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa jeni vet\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb. Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb fakti q\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt kapin dhe po k\u00ebshtu, ata do t’i m\u00ebsojn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre t\u00eb mos thon\u00eb g\u00ebnjeshtra duke qen\u00eb g\u00ebnjeshtar\u00eb vet\u00eb. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb ju kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb prind\u00ebrit tuaj dhe kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb po u b\u00ebni f\u00ebmij\u00ebve tuaj. K\u00ebta f\u00ebmij\u00eb shohin q\u00eb u predikohet kund\u00e7r seksit nga prind\u00ebrit e tyre, nd\u00ebrsa vet\u00eb ata prind\u00ebr jan\u00eb plot seks. Dhe k\u00ebt\u00eb e shohin f\u00ebmij\u00ebt. Ata e kuptojn\u00eb mir\u00eb modelin dhe ata gjithashtu do t’u predikojn\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn gj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre. K\u00ebshtu hipokrizia vazhdon!<\/p>

Shoq\u00ebria jon\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb rrjet gjigand hipokrizie, por ne nuk e shohim at\u00eb sepse kemi lindur n\u00eb t\u00eb, ashtu si peshqit nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb vet\u00ebdijsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr oqeanin sepse ata kan\u00eb lindur n\u00eb t\u00eb. Hipokrizia shkon aq thell\u00eb saq\u00eb n\u00ebse do ta shihnim at\u00eb, do t\u00eb frik\u00ebsoheshim shum\u00eb, duke par\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb po ndodh. Por ne nuk i shikojm\u00eb ato q\u00eb themi, nuk marrim sh\u00ebnime se \u00e7far\u00eb jemi duke b\u00ebr\u00eb, ose \u00e7far\u00eb efekti veprimet tona do t\u00eb ken\u00eb. Ne u japim f\u00ebmij\u00ebve tan\u00eb nj\u00eb edukim t\u00eb intelektit, por nuk i edukojm\u00eb ata n\u00eb meditim. Shkollat jan\u00eb pajisje p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndihmuar prind\u00ebrit t\u00eb shmangin f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre dhe m\u00ebsuesit jan\u00eb thjesht sh\u00ebrb\u00ebtor\u00eb me pag\u00eb, t\u00eb angazhuar p\u00ebr t’i mbajtur f\u00ebmij\u00ebt t\u00eb z\u00ebn\u00eb me l\u00ebnd\u00eb q\u00eb jan\u00eb n\u00ebnt\u00ebdhjet\u00eb e n\u00ebnt\u00eb p\u00ebrqind informacione pa vler\u00eb. F\u00ebmij\u00ebt m\u00ebsojn\u00eb gj\u00ebra q\u00eb nuk duhen m\u00ebsuar fare dhe gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb ata do t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb me to \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u2019i harrojn\u00eb \u2013 pasi nuk jan\u00eb thelb\u00ebsore p\u00ebr ta. M\u00ebsuesi \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb lloj roje, n\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00eb, midis prind\u00ebrve dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre. Detyra e tij \u00ebsht\u00eb t’u jap\u00eb prind\u00ebrve qet\u00ebsi p\u00ebr pes\u00eb ose gjasht\u00eb or\u00eb n\u00eb dit\u00eb.<\/p>

\u00c7far\u00eb lloj dashurie \u00ebsht\u00eb kjo q\u00eb ndjehet e shqet\u00ebsuar nga prania e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve? Kjo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb dashuri. K\u00ebta f\u00ebmij\u00eb jan\u00eb aksidental\u00eb, k\u00ebto jan\u00eb aksidente q\u00eb ju kan\u00eb ndodhur dhe tani disi duhet t\u00eb mir\u00ebmbaheni. Dhe pse i d\u00ebrgon n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb? Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndri\u00e7uar shpirtrat e tyre. Ju i d\u00ebrgoni n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb ata t\u00eb m\u00ebsojn\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb sistemin e hipokrizive t\u00eb shoq\u00ebris\u00eb. Ju i d\u00ebrgoni ato n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb ata t\u00eb kthehen n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi duke u diplomuar n\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb dinak\u00ebrin\u00eb, llogaritshm\u00ebrin\u00eb dhe t\u00ebr\u00eb rrjetin e shoq\u00ebris\u00eb, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb ata t\u00eb b\u00ebhen t\u00eb aft\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyrat e saj, t\u00eb b\u00ebhen an\u00ebtar\u00eb t\u00eb shoq\u00ebris\u00eb. Ju po i p\u00ebrgatisni p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb. Ambiciet tuaja kan\u00eb mbetur t\u00eb paplot\u00ebsuara, keni dashur t\u00eb fitoni miliona por d\u00ebshtuat; tani po p\u00ebrgatitni djalin tuaj p\u00ebr ta p\u00ebrmbushur at\u00eb p\u00ebr ju. N\u00ebse ai d\u00ebshton n\u00eb provimet e tij, ju p\u00ebsoni nj\u00eb ankth t\u00eb madh, jo p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb asaj q\u00eb ai mund t\u00eb ndjej\u00eb, por sepse ambiciet tuaja fillojn\u00eb t\u00eb l\u00ebkunden: si do mund\u00eb ky djal\u00eb t\u00eb arrij\u00eb ambicien tuaj n\u00ebse d\u00ebshton n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb?<\/p>

F\u00ebmij\u00ebt tuaj jan\u00eb zgjatim i ambicieve tuaja, ata jan\u00eb shpresa p\u00ebr d\u00ebshirat tuaja; ju doni t\u00eb udh\u00ebtoni duke hipur mbi supet e tyre. Pra, n\u00ebse djali juaj sjell n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi nj\u00eb t\u00eb ardhur t\u00eb mir\u00eb, ju jeni shum\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqur dhe krenar\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb. Por n\u00ebse ai vjen n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi me asgj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb treguar, askush nuk e mir\u00ebpret. Po mir\u00eb, arsimi mund t\u00eb b\u00ebhet n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb, por kush do t\u00eb siguroj\u00eb an\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr, at\u00eb shpirt\u00ebrore? Ne kemi zhvilluar shkolla shpirt\u00ebrore, por ato jan\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha pseudo, sepse nuk mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb shkoll\u00eb shpirt\u00ebrore. Ato jan\u00eb vet\u00ebm dyqane t\u00eb drejtuara nga ekspert\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr k\u00ebto ne i d\u00ebrgojm\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb. Dhe k\u00ebta ekspert\u00eb nuk kan\u00eb asnj\u00eb kontakt me shpirt\u00ebroren; jeta q\u00eb ata drejtojn\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e ndryshme nga e juaja. Ju mbani nj\u00eb lloj dyqani, eksperti mban nj\u00eb dyqan shpirt\u00ebror. Ju t\u00eb dy jeni bler\u00ebs! Ne i d\u00ebrgojm\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb tek ai p\u00ebr t\u00eb m\u00ebsuar durim, dhe ai i m\u00ebson – sikur shpirt\u00ebrorja t\u00eb ishte gjithashtu nj\u00eb gjeografi apo histori – ai m\u00ebson nj\u00eb m\u00ebsim, e b\u00ebn f\u00ebmij\u00ebn ta m\u00ebsoj\u00eb at\u00eb. Pastaj ka edhe provime gjithashtu. F\u00ebmij\u00ebt kalojn\u00eb provimin dhe kthehen n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi me certifikata.<\/p>

Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb mashtrim. Ju nuk mund t\u00eb uleni n\u00eb nj\u00eb provim shpirt\u00ebror. Vet\u00eb jeta \u00ebsht\u00eb ekzaminimi i saj i plot\u00eb. Dhe askush nuk mund t\u00eb jap\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00e7ertifikat\u00eb; vet\u00ebm vdekja do ta jap\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb vet\u00eb vdekja q\u00eb n\u00eb koh\u00ebn e saj do t\u00eb jap\u00eb certifikat\u00ebn duke th\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00ebse jeni fetar apo jo. N\u00ebse n\u00eb momentin e vdekjes tuaj jeni t\u00eb lumtur, ju keni kaluar; n\u00ebse nuk jeni t\u00eb lumtur n\u00eb momentin e vdekjes keni d\u00ebshtuar. Jeta – jeta n\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00ebsin\u00eb e saj – \u00ebsht\u00eb edukim shpirt\u00ebror dhe vdekja \u00ebsht\u00eb provimi i saj. Ku \u00ebsht\u00eb eksperti q\u00eb mund ta ofroj\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb? Ku jan\u00eb shkrimet q\u00eb mund ta ofrojn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb? Asnj\u00eb shkrim nuk do mund ta b\u00ebj\u00eb, asnj\u00eb ekspert nuk do t\u00eb mund ta b\u00ebj\u00eb. Dhe ju vet\u00eb nuk e dini se \u00e7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb shpirt\u00ebrorja, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb si mund t’i jepni f\u00ebmij\u00ebs? Si mund t\u2019i jepni meditim f\u00ebmij\u00ebs? Ju vet\u00eb nuk e keni njohur kurr\u00eb meditimin, kurr\u00eb nuk e keni shijuar at\u00eb. \u00c7far\u00ebdo q\u00eb d\u00ebshironi t’i jepni f\u00ebmij\u00ebs tuaj, do duhet ta keni p\u00ebrjetuar vet\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb. N\u00ebse babai \u00ebsht\u00eb i pasur, ai do t’i jap\u00eb pasuri djalit t\u00eb tij; n\u00ebse babai \u00ebsht\u00eb meditues, ai do t’i jap\u00eb meditimin djalit t\u00eb tij. Por si mund t\u00eb jepni at\u00eb q\u00eb nuk keni? N\u00ebse babai \u00ebsht\u00eb i dashur, ai do t\u00eb jap\u00eb dashuri; ne mund t\u00eb japim vet\u00ebm at\u00eb q\u00eb kemi.<\/p>

\u201c\u00c7do grua mund b\u00ebj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb, por jo \u00e7do grua \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>

Njer\u00ebzit m\u00eb pyesin \u2013 nganj\u00ebher\u00eb ndonj\u00eb djal\u00eb i ri, nganj\u00ebher\u00eb ndonj\u00eb grua e re – n\u00ebse do t\u00eb ishte gj\u00eb e mir\u00eb p\u00ebr ata q\u00eb t\u00eb kishin nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb. Un\u00eb u them atyre: “S\u00eb pari hyni thell\u00eb n\u00eb meditim dhe vet\u00ebm at\u00ebher\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebheni prind\u00ebr; p\u00ebrndryshe, \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u00eb keni p\u00ebr t\u2019i ofruar f\u00ebmij\u00ebs tuaj? Dhe n\u00ebse nuk keni meditim, prania e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs do t\u00eb zbuloj\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha dob\u00ebsit\u00eb tuaja dhe t\u00ebr\u00eb varf\u00ebrin\u00eb tuaj shpirt\u00ebrore, sepse do t\u00eb zbuloni q\u00eb nuk keni asgj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb. Prandaj \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb s\u00eb pari t\u00eb futeni thell\u00eb n\u00eb meditim dhe m\u00eb pas t\u00eb b\u00ebheni prind\u00ebr, sepse at\u00ebher\u00eb do t\u00eb jeni n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb p\u00ebrmbushni p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsin\u00eb e prindit – dhe jo si detyr\u00eb, por si lumturi. Jepuni f\u00ebmij\u00ebve tuaj meditim, ashtu si intelekt. Intelekti do t’i ndihmoj\u00eb ata t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb suksessh\u00ebm n\u00eb bot\u00eb dhe meditimi do t’i ndihmoj\u00eb ata drejt suksesit shpirt\u00ebror. Jepuni mendim t\u00eb mprehin intelektet, jepuni meditim p\u00ebr t\u00eb ushqyer dashurin\u00eb n\u00eb zemrat e tyre. Fenomeni m\u00eb i r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm n\u00eb bot\u00eb ndodh aty ku shenjt\u00ebria e zemr\u00ebs p\u00ebrmbush aktivitetin e intelektit. N\u00eb at\u00eb takim, aktiviteti dhe pasiviteti ekuilibrojn\u00eb nj\u00ebri-tjetrin, dita dhe nata t\u00eb dyja pushojn\u00eb s\u00eb qeni dhe ju filloni t\u00eb kapni fragmente t\u00eb asaj q\u00eb q\u00ebndron p\u00ebrtej jet\u00ebs dhe vdekjes.<\/p>

\u201cAta vijn\u00eb q\u00eb n\u00eb fillim. Prandaj ata jan\u00eb me ju, megjithat\u00eb ata nuk ju p\u00ebrkasin\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>

K\u00ebto th\u00ebnie kan\u00eb implikime t\u00eb jasht\u00ebzakonshme n\u00ebse e kuptoni q\u00eb f\u00ebmija \u00ebsht\u00eb d\u00ebshira e jet\u00ebs p\u00ebr veten e saj. F\u00ebmija \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb af\u00ebr burimit t\u00eb jet\u00ebs sesa plaku. Plaku \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb af\u00ebr vdekjes … por i \u00e7uditsh\u00ebm – vdekja \u00ebsht\u00eb adhuruar, respektuar dhe jeta \u00ebsht\u00eb shkat\u00ebrruar, shkat\u00ebrruar n\u00eb \u00e7do m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb mundshme. N\u00ebse e dini se ata vijn\u00eb nga ju, por nuk ju takojn\u00eb juve, at\u00ebher\u00eb asnj\u00eb prind nuk do t\u00eb imponoj\u00eb fen\u00eb e tij, politik\u00ebn e tij, idet\u00eb e tij mbi f\u00ebmij\u00ebn e pafajsh\u00ebm. Ai vjen si nj\u00eb tabula rasa – asgj\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb shkruar mbi t\u00eb – dhe prind\u00ebrit kan\u00eb shum\u00eb nxitim ta b\u00ebjn\u00eb at\u00eb nj\u00eb etiket\u00eb. Ju mund t\u2019i jepni atyre dashurin\u00eb tuaj por jo mendimet tuaja. Mendimet e tyre ende nuk jan\u00eb pjekur, ato jan\u00eb akoma n\u00eb form\u00eb farash. Ato jan\u00eb akoma vet\u00ebm potenciale, por duke pasur parasysh lirin\u00eb dhe dashurin\u00eb, do t\u00eb b\u00ebhen realitete, do t\u00eb b\u00ebhen aktualizime.<\/p>


Me t\u00eb gjitha q\u00ebllimet e mira, t\u00eb gjith\u00eb prind\u00ebrit jan\u00eb shkat\u00ebrrues t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre. Ju shikoni n\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb tok\u00ebn vet\u00ebm njer\u00ebz t\u00eb vdekur q\u00eb ecin, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt kan\u00eb humbur shpirtin e tyre shum\u00eb koh\u00eb p\u00ebrpara se t\u00eb ken\u00eb ndonj\u00eb nocion se \u00e7far\u00eb ai \u00ebsht\u00eb. Ju i p\u00ebrkisni t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebs; dit\u00ebt tuaja kan\u00eb mbaruar. Prind\u00ebrit nuk mund ta konceptojn\u00eb t\u00eb ardhmen – dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt nuk do t\u00eb jetojn\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb mos i ngarkoni me idet\u00eb tuaja t\u00eb vdekura. Ju i p\u00ebrkisni dit\u00ebve t\u00eb shkuara, ata i p\u00ebrkasin t\u00eb nes\u00ebrmes. Jepini sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb dashuri. E tashmja \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb pik\u00eb takimi por edhe nj\u00eb pik\u00eb nisjeje. Nga e tashmja, ku po takoheni, do t\u00eb niseni. \u00c7do dit\u00eb, hendeku midis jush dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebve tuaj do t\u00eb b\u00ebhet gjithnj\u00eb e m\u00eb i madh.<\/p>

Flitet p\u00ebr hendekun e gjeneratave. \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nga gj\u00ebrat m\u00eb t\u00eb bukura q\u00eb ka ndodhur n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb shekull – hendeku i brezave. B\u00ebni t\u00eb gjitha p\u00ebrpjekjet p\u00ebr ta zgjeruar at\u00eb, b\u00ebjeni gati t\u00eb pakapsh\u00ebm. P\u00ebrndryshe do t\u00eb bartni kufoma gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebs suaj. N\u00ebse jeni absolutisht t\u00eb lir\u00eb nga e kaluara, do t\u00eb gjeni maja m\u00eb t\u00eb larta t\u00eb vet\u00ebdijes – m\u00eb t\u00eb larta se \u00e7do Krisht dhe se \u00e7do Bud\u00eb. Ne nuk jemi duke r\u00ebn\u00eb posht\u00eb. Vet\u00ebdija jon\u00eb po arrin drejt yjeve, por \u00ebsht\u00eb kaq e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb kuptosh nj\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb t\u00eb qart\u00eb. E kaluara \u00ebsht\u00eb pengesa m\u00eb e madhe p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn tuaj. Prind\u00ebrit nuk duhet t’i japin mendimet e tyre f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre sepse mendimet e tyre jan\u00eb tashm\u00eb t\u00eb vjetra. F\u00ebmij\u00ebt do t\u00eb ken\u00eb mendimet e tyre. Edhe pem\u00ebt din\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb. \u00c7do vjesht\u00eb, gjethet e vjetra bien dhe zhduken n\u00eb tok\u00eb p\u00ebr t’i l\u00ebn\u00eb vend gjetheve t\u00eb reja – m\u00eb t\u00eb gjelb\u00ebrta. N\u00ebse do t\u00eb vazhdonin t\u00eb ngjiteshin te gjethet e tyre t\u00eb vjetra, nuk do t\u00eb kishte as hap\u00ebsir\u00eb dhe as mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb gjethet e reja t\u00eb shfaqeshin.<\/p>

A keni menduar ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb pse, n\u00eb bot\u00ebn bashk\u00ebkohore, njer\u00ebz si Buda, Lao Tzu, Chuang Tzu, Basho, Kabir, Jezusi, Zarathustra – nuk kan\u00eb lindur? \u00c7far\u00eb ka ndodhur? A \u00ebsht\u00eb njer\u00ebzimi nj\u00eb forc\u00eb e harxhuar? Jo – njer\u00ebzimi \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb i fuqish\u00ebm, ka m\u00eb shum\u00eb energji se kurr\u00eb. Por e kaluara vazhdon t\u00eb b\u00ebhet gjithnj\u00eb e m\u00eb e madhe. Natyrisht, \u00e7do dit\u00eb, nj\u00eb dit\u00eb bashkohet me dit\u00ebt e kaluara. Dhe tani e kaluara \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb gati si nj\u00eb Himalaya n\u00eb gjoksin e brisht\u00eb t\u00eb qenieve njer\u00ebzore. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb arsyeja pse nuk keni qenie kaq t\u00eb bukura. Dhe n\u00ebse ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb nj\u00eb njeri ngrihet, ai duket si nj\u00eb i huaj, nj\u00eb i huaj i till\u00eb q\u00eb nuk mund ta durosh. Ju keni harruar shijen e asaj bote kur kishte mij\u00ebra njer\u00ebz t\u00eb ndri\u00e7uar n\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb bot\u00ebn. Askush nuk m\u00ebrzitej. Njer\u00ebzit ishin plot mir\u00ebnjohje.<\/p>

Por sot, situata \u00ebsht\u00eb komplet ndryshe. E gjith\u00eb ajo barr\u00eb n\u00eb mendje ju pengon t\u00eb shihni t\u00eb ren\u00eb. Dhe e reja duhet t\u00eb tregoj\u00eb t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn, t\u00eb vdekurit, p\u00ebr t\u00eb humbur. Mos ua jepni f\u00ebmij\u00ebve tuaj t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn tuaj t\u00eb kalbur si trash\u00ebgimi. Ata kan\u00eb t\u00eb ardhmen e tyre. L\u00ebrini t\u00eb rriten sipas potencialit t\u00eb tyre. Ju mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqeni t\u00eb jeni si ata …sepse ata jan\u00eb t\u00eb s\u00eb ardhmes dhe jan\u00eb t\u00eb pafajsh\u00ebm. Ata jan\u00eb m\u00eb af\u00ebr ekzistenc\u00ebs sesa ju. P\u00ebr ju, nuk ka asgj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr p\u00ebrve\u00e7 se vdekjes q\u00eb t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb, por atyre do tu ndodhin miliona gj\u00ebra: dashuria do t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb, meditimi do t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb, mir\u00ebnjohja do t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb. Ju lutemi rezistoni ndaj tundimit q\u00eb f\u00ebmija juaj duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb kopje si ju. \u00cbsht\u00eb e mundur q\u00eb ta b\u00ebni f\u00ebmij\u00ebn nj\u00eb kopje si ju, por do t\u00eb duhet ta vrisni. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb po them: qe t\u00eb gjith\u00eb prind\u00ebrit jan\u00eb duke vrar\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr t’i b\u00ebr\u00eb ato kopje karboni.<\/p>

Dhe f\u00ebmija ka potencialin t\u00eb jet\u00eb fytyra e tij origjinale. Fytyra origjinale ka bukuri, fytyra origjinale ka di\u00e7ka hyjnore. Fytyra origjinale ka kariz\u00ebm. Nj\u00eb kopje nuk ka asgj\u00eb. Mos i parandaloni. Jepuni atyre forc\u00eb, dhurojini atyre dashuri, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb ata t\u00eb arrijn\u00eb n\u00eb yllin m\u00eb t\u00eb larg\u00ebt. Jini t\u00eb lumtur kur f\u00ebmija juaj fillon t\u00eb largohet nga ju, kur ai fillon t\u00eb b\u00ebhet nj\u00eb individ n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn e tij. Ndjehuni t\u00eb bekuar q\u00eb ai nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb idiot i bindur. P\u00ebrve\u00e7 idiot\u00ebve, askush nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i bindur. Inteligjenca \u00ebsht\u00eb rebelim. Ndjehuni t\u00eb bekuar dhe bekoni f\u00ebmij\u00ebn q\u00eb ju e keni lindur me nj\u00eb frym\u00eb rebele. Kjo duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb krenaria juaj, por kjo n\u00eb realitet b\u00ebhet ankthi i njer\u00ebzve. Ekzistenca ju do t\u00eb dyve. Ju jeni gjithashtu f\u00ebmij\u00eb me t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn ekzistenc\u00eb. Vet\u00ebm se koha juaj ka mbaruar; jepini vend shigjetave t\u00eb fresk\u00ebta dhe bekojini ato.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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